The temper shown in TV plays is usually directed at Lin Xiaoniang and Yi Sheng. Judging from Hualan Changbai's personality, Mrs. Alexander's education of children is still very successful. This is inseparable from the careful teaching of the children by the big lady. As can be seen from the following aspects:
1. My grandmother is the eldest daughter of Houfu. She is clever and intelligent. The daughter-in-law she chose, although there are some minor faults, has no problem with her personality.
In one episode, Ming Lan once asked her grandmother why she chose a big lady as her daughter-in-law. Even if the big lady has a bad temper and is not so careful, but she is soft-hearted, even if she is given a knife, she will not think of hurting people.
Compared with some better qualities, bad temper is not a fatal defect. Everyone has a different temper. Heartbreak is the most deadly. The doctor is kind-hearted, even if he betrays his own colorful ring, he can't bear to let her die. After all, she has feelings.
2. Mrs Grandeo's bad temper is due to Yi Sheng's preference for Lin Xiaoniang, which may not be the case with children.
Miss Alexander has a bad temper because Yi Sheng is partial to Lin Xiaoniang and she is dissatisfied with Yi Sheng and Lin Xiaoniang, not because she is always so bad-tempered. You don't have to be so grumpy with children.
In the big family in ancient times, raising children was not just a mother's problem, but a family problem. Shengjia attaches great importance to children's education. Children are not only the responsibility of the first lady, but also grandma and Yi Sheng.
Girls and boys are generally responsible for food, clothing, housing and transportation. Girls' boudoir rules and moral education are generally the responsibility of mothers; When a boy was young, his father was generally responsible for enlightenment, reading, inviting teachers, going to school and checking homework.
Sheng Jia Da Niangzi comes from a big family, whose family background is higher than Sheng Jia's, and she has a good upbringing for her children. The big lady is simple and kind, has outstanding housekeeping ability, and has a good character in raising children.
In Shengjia, the eldest miss is mainly responsible for raising girls. Two daughters, Hua Lan and Ru Lan, Hua Lan was brought up by her grandmother for a while, and she was taught by her grandmother. Her pattern and education were higher than Lan's. Rulan's character and disposition are more like a big lady, simple and straightforward.
Children are parents' mirrors. If a child is excellent, it is inseparable from the upbringing of his parents. Children are excellent, not only by their parents' shortcomings, but also by their parents' advantages. Hualan three people can be so excellent and have good personality, which is inseparable from the education of the big lady.