First of all, I am very grateful to the school and teacher Han for carefully arranging this family education lecture for our parents.

I benefited a lot from the lectures given by experts from Zhou Huiling. With simple language, the method of combining theory with practice, and her own personal experience, Teacher Zhou Huiling taught our parents the matters that should be paid attention to in the process of educating their children, as well as the methods of education, which impressed me deeply and deeply realized the responsibility and significance of parents. I was a former parent and a lifelong teacher. The key to education is to form good habits, communicate better with children and increase reading methods.

Parents are the first teachers of the children. Everything we say and do has a profound influence on children. Family harmony and strong family atmosphere are objective conditions for a child to grow up healthily.

Let children establish an independent personality from an early age, and then pay attention to their mental health development. Although the child is very young, he has strong self-esteem. Adults' words and deeds are always in their eyes and in their hearts, especially in the face of unfriendly accusations or complaints from outsiders, which will bring mental harm to children. After listening to this lecture, I have some experiences to share with you:

First, it is very necessary to have a good study and habit, which should be reflected in the details of life.

To have good habits, we must first let children get used to thinking, give them enough freedom, and don't die too much, otherwise there will be rebellion in spirit. Be sure to start with small things when children are young, observe carefully, find bad behaviors in life in time, and correct and guide them; Give affirmation and encouragement to children's good behavior in life, make it a habit, and let children study and live with good habits.

Second, do a good job of communication with children.

In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier.

Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, not only will children be more willing to talk to you, but also their language skills can be improved.

Secondly, parents should learn to be friends with their children. If parents are always on top, it is difficult to make intimate friends with their children and there is no real communication. This requires parents to use their children's minds and talk to their children in a language that they can understand. Besides, be patient. There are great differences between parents and children in age, psychology, thoughts and feelings, and understanding needs a process. If you are too impatient, communication will become a bubble.

Third, we should cultivate children to read a lot.

Reading is a learning method to broaden children's horizons and acquire knowledge. It is also an entertainment that brings infinite fun to children. Therefore, we must first create a strong reading atmosphere for our children. Let reading become a way of life for him, and let children feel that reading is a very happy thing. So at home, there is always a fixed time to read books every night, no matter what kind of books, to give him a head start and create a learning atmosphere. Slowly, children also like online reading. Reading has not only become a living habit, but also become our mentor.

After listening to this lecture, I benefited a lot and deeply realized the importance of family education, a big topic of educating children. Especially in the cultivation of children's character, it is not in place. At home, controlling children's behavior requires my consent or approval, which seriously hinders his imagination.

Besides, there is impatience. Because of impatience and impatience, he not only spoke ill of his children again and again, but even hit them. When he saw the helpless and wronged eyes of the child, he woke up. He's just-he's just a kid.

Experts say it really well: once you are a parent, you have to be a teacher for life. Therefore, from this moment on, start from yourself and start from every little thing, let the child have an independent personality and good habits, communicate with the child fairly, let him grow up happily and healthily, and let him become a knowledgeable person and a useful person to society.