There is a little boy in a teacher's class. His parents are middle-aged children, and they are very fond of them. At school, the child always throws clothes and things on the ground. He talks with parents, hoping that parents can cultivate their children's good living habits. But what I didn't expect was that the child didn't change, but the mother often went to school to help the child pack things. The day after communicating with his mother again, her mother sued him to the principal, saying that he wanted to give her children a hard time. .......

To educate children, parents, teachers and schools need to cooperate with each other, but many parents often make the relationship between teachers and schools very tense, forcing teachers to let themselves go regardless of their children.

The following five behaviors, please check yourself, don't be a parent who destroys children; If you are a teacher, please share it with your friends to remind more parents to pay attention. ......

1

Before you figure it out, argue with the teacher or even start work.

Every child is the treasure of his parents. It is normal for parents to get angry on impulse when their children are wronged at school. However, before going to school to "discuss", we must first understand the ins and outs of the matter.

If the child is wrong, apologize actively; If it is the fault of other children, you can talk to the teacher about the situation and let the teacher coordinate the handling; If the school and the teacher do not handle it properly, they can negotiate with the school and the teacher for the next step.

In this process, parents should show an understanding and tolerant attitude, which will leave a very good impression on teachers and will naturally treat their children with special respect in the future. If you go to the school and the teacher before you know the situation clearly, it will only make the teacher feel that the parents are unreasonable, and the negative impression left by the teacher is naturally unfavorable to the children.

2

Don't take the rules of the school and teachers seriously.

The best way is to cooperate with the regulations of schools and teachers. For example, many schools will stipulate that students are not allowed to bring mobile phones. Whether parents agree or not, it is best to educate children to abide by school rules.

If parents complain a lot about some regulations, acquiesce or even encourage their children to violate them, it will make schools and teachers embarrassed and bring great difficulties to teachers' work. Because for parents, they only need to face their children, while for schools, they need to face hundreds of students.

Many seemingly unreasonable systems are often designed to protect the safety and learning environment of most children.

three

Don't attend parent-teacher conferences, and don't communicate with teachers.

Parents should be the first person in charge of children's education, and parents know children best. Teachers hope to establish contact with parents and keep abreast of their children's situation so as to adjust their education methods in time.

Therefore, no matter how busy the work is, parents must take time to attend parent-teacher conferences. If you really can't get out, you'd better communicate with the teacher regularly. Otherwise, the teacher is not sure whether you care about children's education, whether you can accept your own way of dealing with children's problems, and whether some problems that children have in school are related to family problems.

What kind of education children will receive in the end is determined by family education, school education and social education. Without communication with teachers, teachers have no overall grasp of children's education, so it is naturally difficult to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.

four

Judge teachers by social and educational problems.

Just as doctors want patients to be healthy, teachers want children to be excellent. Teaching students well is every teacher's biggest dream. Some parents attach great importance to their children's education. Once there are some educational incidents in society, they will think that there is something wrong with the whole education industry and criticize their children's teachers.

There is no denying that there are some problems in our education, but we can't deny all teachers. This will break the hearts of most teachers with educational ideals and dedication.

If parents can be more understanding and considerate of the teacher's work, the teacher will naturally reciprocate with tolerance and encouragement to the children. This virtuous circle will eventually benefit children for life.

five

Face the teacher with a leading attitude

A survey was made a few years ago: What kind of parents do teachers hate most? Parents who face their teachers with a leadership attitude rank first.

Now many parents think that education is a service industry. After I pay the tuition, the teacher should provide the best service for my children. But education is not a service, it is the guidance and nourishment of the soul.

The best attitude towards teachers is respect and trust, because only these can activate the noblest feelings in teachers' hearts, let teachers treat their children with care and give them the best education. If the last piece of pure land in our society-education can't lift its head, what hope does our society have, what hope does our children have, and what hope does our nation have?

Every life is a complex individual, and a child is a headache for a big family. And a class teacher has to face dozens of children, hundreds of parents, and various other things in life and work. Although he can't let every child grow up and satisfy every parent, at least he must believe that they have done their best for their children. So please be kind to every teacher, especially those who are kind to your child and strict with your child.

Parents should be more tolerant and understanding, and give teachers more respect and trust. Teachers will cherish your children more.