Minimum parenting

An unattended area/event

1. Don't worry about what children can do. Parents should cultivate their children's self-care ability. First of all, they should learn to let their children do what they can, even if they are actually causing you trouble. But education is such a process. Let the children do it themselves, and the children will grow up.

2. Children can make their own choices. Adults choose their own life direction, and children also need to choose.

Parents should give their children the right and freedom to choose, and learn to choose what to wear and do when their children are young. When children grow up, they can make choices that can change their destiny, let them listen to their hearts and make the choices that suit them best.

3. Don't worry about children's secrets.

From the perspective of pedagogy, independence is one of the basic characteristics of modern people. I think having personal secrets and handling them properly is the key to independence. For people, secrets are often associated with responsibility, and they should bear the responsibility independently. Therefore, please allow children to have their own secrets and their own small space. Every child has the potential to be an excellent person. Parents' different daily education gives their children different lives.

Five unaccustomed

1. Children without rules can't adapt.

Children are like a rushing river. What parents have to do is to build a strong dam for him in line with his direction. Let this river not be flooded because it is out of control, and let it go further until it joins the sea. The rule is this dam. Make rules early, don't think that children can get used to it when they are young. I'm used to it now, but I can't control it if I want to.

Children are not used to not doing housework.

We should cultivate self-care ability and good habits from an early age, train children to do housework from an early age, let them take care of themselves, and cultivate their hardworking quality. This is of great benefit to children's future study, life and work.

Children can't get used to disrespect their elders.

Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue and the most basic courtesy. A child who doesn't respect his elders at home doesn't know what etiquette is in society. Such children are easily unpopular and easily avoided.

4. Children are selfish and unaccustomed to not only giving love to children, but also teaching them how to give love and let them know how to be grateful. A child who knows how to be grateful will appreciate what others have done for him, cherish what he has, and feel happy and happy to have everything in front of him.

5. Children crying and playing tricks can't be used to educate their parents. You can't always compromise with your children. Even if your child is crying and cheating, parents will compromise more often, which will make your child form a wrong judgment: as long as you keep crying, you will always get what I want. Parents satisfy their children unprincipled, so that children can get what they want as soon as they rely on it. This is to help him establish a wrong outlook on life and world order. Parents should learn to resolutely refuse their children's unreasonable demands and let them understand the principles and bottom line of adults. After repeated times, they will naturally understand that unreasonable troubles can't achieve their goals.