As the saying goes, "If you don't teach, someone will teach for you". You think the child is still young, and you think it is natural for the child to play around. Now you forgive his nickname and even ask others to forgive him. But because he is young, he is not as clear-cut as an adult. Besides, he has to grow up. One day, he walked out of school and went to the society, and did some bear behavior, and the society would not forgive him. Education is cultivated from childhood, and it is the same without education! Spoiling a child is like killing a child. Your children, if you don't educate them, someone will educate you.
You are afraid of educating a child in front of outsiders, hurting his personality, hurting his self-esteem and making him feel ashamed. You just don't understand the influence of education on children. See what kind of education, no matter where. Beating and cursing is not education. To educate children, we must talk about science.
Parents protect their children, and children will learn to protect themselves and others; In contrast, the so-called good family education is just a false proposition. In this sense, I would rather be a parent who stands up when other children are pushed or bullied, and have common sense with other children. In this way, children can learn from our consistent behavior that you can't bully others and others can't bully you.
It is normal for children to make mistakes, but we should be happy that children have grown up slowly, have their own ideas and are exploring. This kind of exploration is problematic. As long as we guide correctly, children will grow up greatly. As the saying goes, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?