In the summer of 2006, the news that the first summer camp in Beijing failed was reported by many media. Zhang Rose, the planner of the summer camp, director of the Research Center for Sexual Health Education of the Department of Education of Capital Normal University and vice president of the Beijing Sexual Health Education Research Association, must face the fact that from April to July, there were only a handful of calls, and only 10 people applied for guardians to let their children attend remedial classes such as English. It's totally unnecessary. Wang Guorong said that China people's attitudes towards sex often fall into two extremes: one is nihilism that is avoided and diluted, and the other is rampant and unrestrained pragmatism.
Discoloration from the closed cultural soil is indeed the first kind. As a result, 63.42% of teenagers in China got positive answers from * * * or adult websites, 25.88% from books, and only 0.93% from teachers and parents. According to the survey, only 26% of parents in China have talked about sex with their children on their own initiative, but this has nothing to do with sexual psychology and contraception. Most parents think their children are too young to know what they can do for them. In fact, due to the lack of sexual ignorance and even sexual abuse, it has become a place we must pay attention to. Sex has become an evil flower that blooms prematurely.
Wang Xiao, 16 years old, is a senior two student in Beijing key middle school. She told reporters that more than half of the girls in the class had had sex, and even two girls had abortions. This phenomenon is not uncommon in junior high schools. Zhang, director of China Population Publicity Center, pointed out at the international seminar "Exploring the Right Direction of Adolescent Sexual Health Education in China" held in September this year that about 22 million adolescents in China enter sexual maturity every year. Among the teenagers aged 18-24, 48% have had sex. Among the female teenagers who have premarital sex, more than 20% get pregnant unexpectedly, and most of them tell them to have an abortion. A survey by Li Yinhe, a famous sexologist, shows that the proportion of premarital sex in China has increased from 15% in 0989 to 7 1.4% in 20 12 years. This change will take 1200 years in other countries.
Who am I, where do I come from and where do I want to go? This is not only a philosophical proposition that human beings have been trying to solve since ancient times, but also knocks down many people in real life. 1October 20th 165438+ CCTV's street survey shows that among the generation born between 1940 and 1990, there are various answers to this question. 85% of people answered that they were picked up from rivers and garbage dumps, and some fell from limbs, floods and beds. The answer is very different. On Sina Weibo, a survey of nearly 20,000 people showed that nearly 70% of them were picked up by their parents, and it is said that less than 16% came from their mothers' stomachs. Parents are unwilling or don't know how to tell their children the correct answer to the complex question about the origin of life. Behind the seemingly ridiculous answer, it reflects the status quo that China has been missing for decades. From family to school, facing this problem in an evasive, chaotic and deceptive way lacks a valuable first lesson in many people's lives.
Born in 1945. 67-year-old Professor Ma Xiaonian, Chairman of the Professional Committee of Sexual Medicine in china sexology association, Member of the Standing Committee of Male Branch of Chinese Medical Association, Life Times. Reporter: "When we were young, we all lived in big quadrangles and stared at countless eyes. Who dares to say sex? " Until I graduated from college, I was sexually blind and had no education in this field. I work in the countryside of Qinghai and listen to farmers telling jokes about meat.