Parents are children's first teachers, and children's first education comes from parents. So generally speaking, the higher the educational level of parents, the brighter the future of children in most cases.
There is a saying: parents are originals and children are copies. In a person's life, people receive education mainly from three aspects. In chronological order, from birth to school, they mainly receive family education. After school, they mainly receive school education. After work, it is mainly influenced by the social environment.
The teacher said: parents send their children to school. Teachers teach during the day and go home at night, and parents should set a correct example for their children. Teachers teach children to study hard during the day, and parents let them do homework at night, but if parents are playing games, children will be unbalanced. From Monday to Friday, the school only corrects children's study habits, and parents tend sheep on weekends. Whether you care about the children or not, in the end, the children's habits have changed again. When I go to school next Monday, the teacher must correct it again. The result of this education is 5+2=0, which is nothing.
When your child grows up in a relaxed family environment, his body and mind will be healthier and he will become a happy person more easily.
Family education still plays an important role in children's career choice and marriage after graduation. A person's personality is basically stereotyped when he is 18 years old. Childhood education and experience are profound, and some people will never get rid of family of origin's trauma. Therefore, Austrian psychiatrist Adler said: "Happy people use their childhood to heal their lives, while unfortunate people use their lives to heal their childhood."
Family education is the first education we receive after birth, and it also has the greatest influence on people's character, but it does not mean that family education determines people's life. The quality of parents' education plays a leading role in their children's future, not a decisive role.
Because in real life, there are many examples to prove that some people have a good family education, but in the end they have embarked on the road of crime. Some people have a poor family education environment, but they have become people who have contributed to society and have not gone astray. These people did not follow family of origin's wrong outlook on life and values, but changed family of origin's way of thinking through their own study and became rebels of life.
Therefore, the education level of parents is not decisive for their children's future. However, we can't deny that family education is the most important part of all education and has a great influence on people's life.
Family education is the starting point and foundation of all education. Parents should first help their children, correct some bad habits, and then form correct habits. Some people say that good parents are better than good teachers, which shows that in one's childhood, parents have greater influence on children than teachers.
Here, I would like to give some suggestions to parents, and strive to achieve three more, three less and one accurate when educating their children.
1. Listen more and nag less.
2. More spiritual interaction and less material rewards.
3. Encourage more and criticize less.
4. Errors are allowed.
The last point is very important. I allow you to make mistakes, fail the exam, and be inferior to others. When your child grows up in a relaxed family environment, his body and mind will be healthier and he will become a happy person more easily.