And in rural areas, many things are not as important as education. Many farmers have suffered all their lives and devoted their lives to farming. Therefore, he doesn't want his children to be like himself in the future. He hopes that their children can become successful people and win glory for their ancestors, and they can also prepare for their retirement in the future. Therefore, rural people are also very strict with children, and children will definitely start to reprimand after making mistakes. However, many people forget one thing. Parents can teach their children.
Just like an old saying: Don't train children before meals. This is a wise saying of our ancestors. Why did our ancestors say that? In fact, this will be linked to the health of children. Everyone knows that children's physical development is very important, so if you train your children before eating, it will definitely have a bad influence. He hasn't eaten since he trained the children. At this time, the child has no appetite, and he is very nervous, and his saliva secretion is less, so that he can't eat food. Even if he keeps eating, it will cause harm to the stomach.
Once or twice is ok, but if you keep doing this, it will definitely have a great impact on your child's health. Every parent wants their children to be healthy, and the feeling of wanting to succeed is actually understandable. All parents can feel the same way, but there is a saying that you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient. Your starting point in educating your children is good, but don't pick up sesame seeds and throw watermelons for it, and don't let your children feel oppressed psychologically and be afraid of eating in the future.
No matter what the child's grades are, he will continue to study, even if he can't get into any school in the future, but his future life has just begun. If he is in poor health, it is difficult to find a suitable job even if he is admitted to a good school. As an adult, he should have thought of this long ago. Children will be reprimanded in the process of growing up, so they must be properly educated.
There is another sentence behind this proverb, that is, don't train your wife before going to bed. It is normal for couples to disagree in their lives. But as the saying goes, every couple quarrels at the end of the bed, but some husbands always complain about their wife's behavior and criticize her before going to bed, saying that she is not doing well. If she does something wrong, she will think about it, and then it will be difficult to sleep. But if she did nothing wrong, she would quarrel with her husband. Anyway, it's hard to sleep.
It doesn't matter if this happens once or twice, but both of them will suffer from insomnia for a long time. Insomnia is very harmful to the body and can cause problems in other parts of a person. As long as it accumulates slowly in the body, there will always be consequences. Therefore, don't train your wife before going to bed. When quarreling, think for yourself at another time. Therefore, the ancestor's sentence: do not train your son before meals, and do not train your wife before going to bed, which is a very reasonable sentence. Even now, it also applies to today's society. what do you think?