Create a "friendly" environment
Create a "friendly" environment to give children a sense of security and belonging. I believe that every child has his own way to solve problems. He can get out of his mistakes in a safe and kind environment and gain the energy to solve problems.
Firmly implement educational methods
"Firmness" refers to the ways, methods and rules for solving problems with children, which should be firmly implemented, so that children can learn to abide by the rules in firmness, develop good habits of self-discipline in firmness, and develop good quality in firmness.
Diversified educational methods
When children are picky about food, should we "give up" to persuade her to feed food or tell her the importance of eating more vegetables? When a child doesn't want to take a nap, should he be coaxed to sleep or given more companionship and encouragement? When a child doesn't want to wash his hands, should we take him to wash them by force, or teach him interesting nursery rhymes about washing his hands? I think as long as I can communicate with children, the latter is absolutely perfect.
Respect children's choice
When children have the opportunity to choose, they will feel their own strength. When we want to give children the autonomy to make decisions, their sense of value will be aroused, and children will actively cooperate and take the initiative to implement them, so that such firmness will be closer to happiness.
A kind and firm way of education
Kindness and firmness are not means, but principles and positions. It is to let children make their own decisions, respect and trust them, give them the right to choose independently, respect and care for them with a kind and firm attitude, pay more attention to their advantages, and do education with love and temperature.