In fact, the saying "teaching children face to face" has certain scientific truth. What he basically means is that children should immediately know what mistakes they have made and deepen their memories, so that they can easily remember and correct them. However, this practice also requires some skills, not all situations need to be done, depending on our environment.

First of all, it is a principle to teach children face to face, that is, what you have to do is education, not blame. Some people simply can't tell the relationship between education and blame. They think that beating and cursing is education, and the specific implementation of education is beating and cursing. In fact, this is an extremely wrong behavior. This practice will not only bring us the expected results, but also cause psychological problems to children to some extent, which may lead to depression or schizophrenia. Therefore, one principle that we should adhere to is that we should educate the child, not blame and scold him. When he makes a mistake, he should kneel down, analyze the mistake with him and try to correct it.

Secondly, we should pay attention to reason. Some parents are unwilling to show it in front of their children because of their face, even if they do something wrong. This kind of behavior will also cause a very unfair feeling to your children. The correct way should be to admit their mistakes to children immediately when we find them wrong, and ensure that they won't make such mistakes again in the future. After doing this, children will feel fair and learn from you in the future.

In fact, educating children mainly depends on "half-hearted", that is, patience and carefulness. With this mentality, we can have the most fundamental quality of educating our children well. A careless person will not educate children well.