1. Attitude

Strict and loving, positive attitude.

2. method.

(1) Ensure that children grow up in a healthy family environment. Create an independent living environment for children and cultivate their healthy living and study habits. There are contradictions and frequent quarrels between parents, which is also a very abnormal and unhealthy environment. We should comfort and guide children in a positive and healthy way.

(2) Always let children see hope. Parents pin their hopes on their children, but how can they make them see hope and think that they really have hope? No matter how well children do, they often praise them, such as "well done" and "great"

(3) Never compete with children. Do not use "provocation" to stimulate children. Parents can compete with their children in some specific events that they are good at, such as playing ball games, but don't aim at winning or losing.

How parents should communicate with their children;

1. Trust children unconditionally. Parents are their first teachers and role models for life. Children's strengths, weaknesses, good habits and bad habits basically come from the influence of parents and the surrounding environment. Therefore, parents should first do what their children are asked to do.

2. Communicate with children more. In the eyes of adults, children are too young to understand anything. In fact, children have their self-esteem. You can try to make your child feel that parents are communicating with themselves on an equal footing and respecting him.

3. Praise more and criticize less. Proper praise is a stimulant and lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement make children progress, and criticism and complaints make children fall behind.