We should know that human development is inseparable from the environment, and a good family education environment is the only way to raise children. Family education is also an art, the essence of which is that parents are good at using scientific education methods flexibly and creatively to educate their children according to their characteristics and specific environmental conditions under the guidance of scientific education principles. Let children develop healthily and harmoniously, and promote their social development. Family education is the education at the beginning of life, an important way for teenagers to receive education and influence, and the only way to realize socialization, which plays a very important role in their growth, development and maturity. Family is the initial and important place for children's socialization. The influence of family on children's socialization is subtle, just like a silent teacher, playing a special role all the time. Fromm once said, "Family is the spiritual medium of society. By adapting themselves to the family, children acquire a personality that adapts to the duties they must perform in social life. " The requirements of society and the times will leave a mark on children's hearts through their families. Preschool children basically live in the family and grow up under the care of their parents. Therefore, family material conditions, family structure, parents' educational concepts and upbringing methods, and parent-child relationship will directly affect the formation and development of children's social ability. (1) The significance of creating a good family environment is the significance of good family education and social development. The family education environment refers to the synthesis of all external conditions that have an impact on children's physical and mental development. It not only includes all kinds of material conditions and living environment necessary for children's development, but also includes interpersonal relationships and psychological atmosphere in the family that plays an important role in children's physical and mental development, which has an overall impact on children's growth. A good family education environment means that parents consciously grasp and use the family education environment from their own educational concepts and attitudes. It is the parents' conscious creation, creation and utilization of physical environment and psychological environment for the better development of children, and it is the sum of various educational influences exerted by parents. Social development refers to the process that children gradually master social moral behavior norms and social behavior skills from a "natural person", become a "social person" and gradually enter the society. (2) the significance of creating a good family environment 1. The great role of children's socialization refers to the process of children's transformation from a natural person in the biological sense to a social person through education and training, especially through social communication. When children come into this world, the first environment in which they live is family. Family is the cradle of children's growth and the first environment that children come into contact with in their lives. A good family education environment plays a subtle role in children, is the key to guide children to take the first step in life, and has a lifelong impact on children. In ancient China, there were sayings that "those who approach Zhu Zhechi are black", "those who dye pale are white, those who dye yellow are yellow" and "those who don't help in bitter fleabane bitter fleabane bitter fleabane are straight". It can be seen that the influence and function of the environment on people is enormous and decisive, and it still has important practical significance today. Therefore, parents and teachers should take the initiative to create a good family education environment for their children as soon as possible.

2. It has a great influence on children's early intellectual development because children live next to their parents, and facilitating early education is an important feature of family education. Parents are children's first teachers, and their beliefs, emotions and behaviors have a subtle influence on children. Coupled with the characteristics of children, the ability to distinguish right from wrong is poor and easy to imitate. A word, an action or even a facial expression of parents will guide the development of children. Therefore, parents' self-cultivation, good parent-child relationship, correct parenting attitude and lifestyle, and harmonious family atmosphere will have a far-reaching and lasting impact on children's life development. 3, the role in children's moral growth Marxism believes that children's physical and mental development, the formation of personality quality, is based on innate quality, is determined by the environment and education, education plays a leading role under certain conditions. Family is not only the environment where children live, but also the place where children receive education. A good family education environment is the key to the healthy growth of children. Once a child develops bad behavior habits, it is more difficult to correct them. Zhu Qinglan, a famous patriotic general in China, once said that children are born with snow-white silk. Living at home for six years is like the first vat, entering school is like the second vat, and graduating from school at the age of 20, who is like the third vat? He thinks the key is the first dye vat. The first dye vat dyed red foundation. After receiving a good education, it will turn red and vermilion. Even if it is adversely affected in the later period, the red background will not turn black. But if the first line is dyed with a black background, it will be a good education in the future, and it is difficult to completely fade the black. If it is adversely affected again, it will be black on it and will never be black. Therefore, children's early family education environment is very important for their future development. (3) Necessary conditions for good family education (1), good family members' relationship and harmonious family atmosphere. Family members live in harmony and have a harmonious relationship. Husband and wife have deep feelings. Parents love learning and have healthy lifestyles and habits. Parents attach importance to the education of their children, and can form a family atmosphere that loves truth, respects knowledge and is diligent and studious with correct methods. (2) Parents enjoy prestige in children's eyes, and their words and deeds can set an example for children. In this environment, parents encourage their children to explore freely and learn independently, allow them to fail, and allow them to have different views, opinions and answers. Family members can treat their children equally, trust them, understand and respect their individuality, achieve mutual understanding and respect, and let them develop independently. (3) Parents have certain political and cultural qualities and know the principles and methods of educating their children. Parents should also be good at getting along with their children, understanding them, caring for them and loving them rationally. A good family education environment should allow children to tell the truth and reason, discuss on an equal footing, be full of love, be honest and trustworthy, abide by the law, be self-respecting, be United and harmonious, be diligent and thrifty, be studious, behave in a civilized manner, have no bad hobbies, encourage progress and do good deeds, and be quiet and quiet. (4) Parents have a common life system and family members have good habits. A good family education environment should also have safe, clean, quiet and beautiful conditions. In addition to meeting the various needs of children's physical development, we should also pay attention to providing children with a large venue for activities, so that children can have a small world of their own, and children can study and play freely without being affected or disturbed, providing enough space for their development. (4) Give full play to the socialization function of the family. First, raise parents' awareness of socialization. For example, introduce the significance of children's social development to parents, so that every parent can fully realize the importance of children's social development, so as to implement social education for children as social representatives. First of all, let parents know the importance of a good family education environment, understand the components of the family education environment, understand its role in the healthy development of children and what impact it will have on children if this work is ignored. On this basis, parents should further know that a good family education environment can be created by themselves and can be realized by changing educational concepts and behaviors. So this job is not difficult, it depends entirely on parents' own practices.

Second, establish a democratic family. Children are individuals with independent personalities. Parents should put themselves and their children on an equal footing, listen to their wishes, let their children dare to express their opinions and demands in front of their parents, and at the same time let their children know how to restrain themselves, be modest and respect their elders. Excessive restrictions on children, autocratic type that does not allow such and such things, doting on children, indifferent and laissez-faire attitude towards children are not conducive to cultivating children's sociality. Let parents know: learn from their children and grow up with them. Modern society is a society where two generations grow together. Modern education is the interaction between two generations. Learning from children is a sign of real maturity and wisdom of adults. A person's life is a learning process. Therefore, parents should not be ashamed to learn from their children in the process of creation. Parents can participate with their children, jointly create and create a unique family education environment, and constantly transform and innovate, so that the process of creating a good family education environment becomes a process of children's learning, interaction between parents and children, and independent development of children. Thirdly, parents should create places for their children to play and communicate with their partners. Because children have similar experiences and abilities, the same interests and feelings, and are completely in an equal and independent position, they attract and imitate each other, compete and confront each other. Therefore, peer group communication can make children keep thinking.