2. It has a great influence on children's early intellectual development because children live next to their parents, and facilitating early education is an important feature of family education. Parents are children's first teachers, and their beliefs, emotions and behaviors have a subtle influence on children. Coupled with the characteristics of children, the ability to distinguish right from wrong is poor and easy to imitate. A word, an action or even a facial expression of parents will guide the development of children. Therefore, parents' self-cultivation, good parent-child relationship, correct parenting attitude and lifestyle, and harmonious family atmosphere will have a far-reaching and lasting impact on children's life development. 3, the role in children's moral growth Marxism believes that children's physical and mental development, the formation of personality quality, is based on innate quality, is determined by the environment and education, education plays a leading role under certain conditions. Family is not only the environment where children live, but also the place where children receive education. A good family education environment is the key to the healthy growth of children. Once a child develops bad behavior habits, it is more difficult to correct them. Zhu Qinglan, a famous patriotic general in China, once said that children are born with snow-white silk. Living at home for six years is like the first vat, entering school is like the second vat, and graduating from school at the age of 20, who is like the third vat? He thinks the key is the first dye vat. The first dye vat dyed red foundation. After receiving a good education, it will turn red and vermilion. Even if it is adversely affected in the later period, the red background will not turn black. But if the first line is dyed with a black background, it will be a good education in the future, and it is difficult to completely fade the black. If it is adversely affected again, it will be black on it and will never be black. Therefore, children's early family education environment is very important for their future development. (3) Necessary conditions for good family education (1), good family members' relationship and harmonious family atmosphere. Family members live in harmony and have a harmonious relationship. Husband and wife have deep feelings. Parents love learning and have healthy lifestyles and habits. Parents attach importance to the education of their children, and can form a family atmosphere that loves truth, respects knowledge and is diligent and studious with correct methods. (2) Parents enjoy prestige in children's eyes, and their words and deeds can set an example for children. In this environment, parents encourage their children to explore freely and learn independently, allow them to fail, and allow them to have different views, opinions and answers. Family members can treat their children equally, trust them, understand and respect their individuality, achieve mutual understanding and respect, and let them develop independently. (3) Parents have certain political and cultural qualities and know the principles and methods of educating their children. Parents should also be good at getting along with their children, understanding them, caring for them and loving them rationally. A good family education environment should allow children to tell the truth and reason, discuss on an equal footing, be full of love, be honest and trustworthy, abide by the law, be self-respecting, be United and harmonious, be diligent and thrifty, be studious, behave in a civilized manner, have no bad hobbies, encourage progress and do good deeds, and be quiet and quiet. (4) Parents have a common life system and family members have good habits. A good family education environment should also have safe, clean, quiet and beautiful conditions. In addition to meeting the various needs of children's physical development, we should also pay attention to providing children with a large venue for activities, so that children can have a small world of their own, and children can study and play freely without being affected or disturbed, providing enough space for their development. (4) Give full play to the socialization function of the family. First, raise parents' awareness of socialization. For example, introduce the significance of children's social development to parents, so that every parent can fully realize the importance of children's social development, so as to implement social education for children as social representatives. First of all, let parents know the importance of a good family education environment, understand the components of the family education environment, understand its role in the healthy development of children and what impact it will have on children if this work is ignored. On this basis, parents should further know that a good family education environment can be created by themselves and can be realized by changing educational concepts and behaviors. So this job is not difficult, it depends entirely on parents' own practices.
Second, establish a democratic family. Children are individuals with independent personalities. Parents should put themselves and their children on an equal footing, listen to their wishes, let their children dare to express their opinions and demands in front of their parents, and at the same time let their children know how to restrain themselves, be modest and respect their elders. Excessive restrictions on children, autocratic type that does not allow such and such things, doting on children, indifferent and laissez-faire attitude towards children are not conducive to cultivating children's sociality. Let parents know: learn from their children and grow up with them. Modern society is a society where two generations grow together. Modern education is the interaction between two generations. Learning from children is a sign of real maturity and wisdom of adults. A person's life is a learning process. Therefore, parents should not be ashamed to learn from their children in the process of creation. Parents can participate with their children, jointly create and create a unique family education environment, and constantly transform and innovate, so that the process of creating a good family education environment becomes a process of children's learning, interaction between parents and children, and independent development of children. Thirdly, parents should create places for their children to play and communicate with their partners. Because children have similar experiences and abilities, the same interests and feelings, and are completely in an equal and independent position, they attract and imitate each other, compete and confront each other. Therefore, peer group communication can make children keep thinking.