First of all, I think whatever the reason, it can't be an excuse to bully others. The school is a place that loves each other and should not be a den of bullying. This is the dereliction of duty of school leaders, the dirty school environment and the education of parents. Society, schools and parents should give their children a healthy learning environment and let them grow up psychologically, otherwise, it would be a big mistake. Although school bullying is trivial, it is precisely because of the accumulation of these trivial things that he has caused great trauma to a child's young mind. We must not tolerate bullying, we must make an example of it.
Back to the essence, if the child is bullied, parents should not go to that person angrily, which will give the child a psychological hint. The first thing we should do is to comfort the child, let him feel his warmth, and then calm down a little. Ask the student why he is bullied, and then ask him if he is often bullied. If so, ask him if he has asked his classmates why they always bully him. In fact, the reason for being bullied is nothing more than asking for money or being too weak. Reasoning with your child, telling him the cause and effect, conquering others with reason, not violence.
If our children are often bullied, as parents, we should also think about whether our children are too weak or not good at cooperating with others while being angry. If so, then we should encourage children to be brave and strong, learn to cooperate and learn to get along with others. After seeing or hearing that their children have been "bullied", some parents will indiscriminately reprimand other people's children and even encourage them to retaliate against each other by "fighting blows with blows". This kind of education is undesirable, even terrible. Because the result of "answer blows with blows" can only be that while letting other people's children continue to be bullied, their children have also learned the wrong idea that it is reasonable to hurt others. I quite agree with the view that "grievances are the price of growth". Let children learn tolerance, forbearance and understanding from an early age, which is beneficial to their healthy growth, and to their future social development and adaptation.
In a word, I think "children being bullied" is just a very common thing. What matters is the attitude of parents and the way to deal with problems. We should not exaggerate the seriousness of the problem. From a certain point of view, it may just provide children with an opportunity to exercise. I hope that parents can treat their children calmly and rationally and handle them properly and effectively when their children are bullied.