A child's nature is what he is naturally interested in and good at. If he develops in this respect, his life will be happier. However, it is meaningless not to follow the innate inferiority of children, such as laziness and greed, which are all innate, but these things cannot exist, at least he can't appear in a person's normal three views. Therefore, he respects what children are naturally interested in and gifted in this respect, no matter what they are capable of doing, or what they treat.
None of us is a great man. Although you read a lot of poisoned chicken soup, in the final analysis, no one tells you how to succeed, because it is very simple, the real money-making person will not tell you how he made money, and the real successful person will not tell you how he succeeded. Every successful example is unrepeatable. If you can copy it, everyone will be a millionaire and everyone will be great and successful. Then there will be no greatness.
What's wrong with being ordinary? Why can't you accept the ordinary? Go to school, study hard, find a stable job, marry someone you love, someone who loves you, and have a descendant to educate his descendants, cultivate his growth and make him excellent, not better than most people, but just as good as most people. This above-average ability can easily ensure that a person's life in society is good, which is enough, because not everyone wants to be a multimillionaire, billionaire or billionaire.
Don't put too much pressure on your child, because your good expectations for him are a kind of motivation, but when this expectation turns into pressure, it is not motivation but resistance. Everyone has the upper limit of his talent, just like in learning, he can learn 600 points through hard work, but it is unrealistic for you to let him learn 700 points through hard work. To a certain extent, it will not be solved by hard work. That also depends on talent.