Post-90s generation who have not received sex education.
On my way home yesterday, I stood on the lifeline of subway line 3 with one foot. Everybody huddled together.
There are two sisters standing beside me. What are they talking about? Their voices are very small, but I can hear them clearly.
One of the sisters said:
My sister-in-law just sent him to his son's schoolbag in the family group. My nephew said it was from the school teacher. That's great. I still teach this in primary school. Is there no bottom line?
I peeked at the enlarged photo of her mobile phone, and there were men and women lying in bed with clothes on, along with the following words:
Remember, you must use condoms when having sex.
Another sister said after reading it, ah, I seem to be behind the times. Which textbooks have been exposed so bluntly?
Natural health education book. Not only that, but also words like breasts, penis and vagina, and spicy eyes.
They keep talking about two people standing together.
I looked at them deeply and felt deeply.
Sex is such a bad topic? Is proper sex education so vulgar?
I'm a little confused. I don't think it's just them. Our generation seems to be hurt by this idea.
We have never received sex education since childhood, and the topic of sex is only a private conversation.
When these things are displayed positively, some people are surprised, some people despise, some people are disgusted, and they look on in different ways with different eyes.
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How inadequate is sex education in China?
Not only is there no sex education, but it will also increase the shackles of sexual spirit.
The former is called asexual education, and the saddest thing is that there is no even the most basic physiological education.
I remember when I was in primary school, my deskmate developed rapidly. She was the tallest girl in our class and the first girl to menstruate at that time.
Once she came out of the toilet, another girl in the class found a bloody foreign body thrown in the trash can.
From then on, the story spread quietly in the class, and she was laughed at and even played a malicious joke: she was sick and called her impure.
She held back and said, my sister said that the first time a foreign girl came, it was for a celebration party.
Not only do you resist failure, but you are also laughed at.
And at this time, the men in the class began to discuss which woman's breasts were prominent and which woman's breasts were the biggest, so they gave birth to a girl with big breasts.
Since girls are ashamed to talk about it, they always have breasts. Naughty men will also tear the bra strap around the girl's neck.
These normal physiological changes are monsters in the eyes of our generation.
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After graduating from junior high school, adolescence began to bump into our bodies in ignorance.
Women can only vaguely understand that the relationship between men and women exists to some extent through idol dramas and Marisol's novels.
Men began to watch low-quality movies in the island country, in which the female teacher was their first sex teacher.
But all they feel is excitement, and the real knowledge reserve is still blank.
How do men and women view their normal physiological changes?
How to protect yourself? How to protect each other? How to face your sexual needs correctly?
We only know the surface, but we know nothing.
After biology class, a lesson about reproductive organs.
This section is only used as an angle layout for extended reading. The biology teacher has been thinking until now:
I won't shoot this part, just have a look.
Men who read and speculate on this knowledge many times will also laugh strangely.
I didn't seem to respond at that time, but I didn't.
Because knowing too much about these things is not pure.
A good student should be pure.
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Lack of family, school, society and other systems of sex education environment has gradually grown up.
I must have heard the gossip that jane doe had a miscarriage and was sexually assaulted by primary school students.
Moreover, the incredible theory of sex is quietly brainwashing.
For example, the Notre Dame theory:
As a girl, we must keep it clean and leave the person entrusted for the first time behind.
Virgo seems to be a sacred thing, master. Girls who are not virgins are all in turmoil.
Sexual shame theory:
How can you talk about this topic? You are dirty. "
"TA has gone to bed with XX. That's disgusting. \'
Our subconscious can hardly say "sex".
Virgin consciousness is also deeply imprinted in my mind.
Under these constraints, there is no other knowledge about health, self-protection and contraception except the concept of virginity.
Chai Jing saw this sentence in her eyes:
Why doesn't our culture accept homosexuality? In our culture, fertility is the goal, ignorance is purity, ignorance is virtue and prejudice is principle.
Love should be the attitude of one soul to another, not the reaction of one organ to another.
You really don't accept homosexuality?
As if cutting off the previous question, Zhang Beichuan's answer can also explain why we lack sex education.
Adults always feel that sex is not good. Stay away from sexual assault and talk to us too early.
This kind of barrier protection can never resist physiological impulses.
Ignorance of sexual knowledge, reckless eating of forbidden fruit, and finally lead to tragedy.
I don't know what sexual assault is.
Without proper sex education, we won't have a strong sense of sex. various
In the face of aggression,
"I don't know, I don't know.
Sex education is too early, and bad people don't hate children. Sex education is really urgent.