As parents, the greatest expectation is to cultivate excellent children. The best education actually comes from family education. The most fundamental reason for children's good conduct and hard work lies in the subtle influence brought by their parents' words and deeds.

Parents' way of life, way of thinking, way of education and way of life will play a key role in children's personality, psychology and behavior, and have a long-term and far-reaching impact.

What kind of family can bring up excellent children?

All relationships in this world, no matter what they start with, will eventually fall on personality.

Someone once said: "Most of children's education is attributed to the correction and improvement of role models and parents themselves.

The success of a child is closely related to the correctness of parents' family education.

Good behavior can greatly help children become useful people. The establishment of character comes from the power of example, and parents can't escape as role models for their children.

The premise of respecting children is trust. Everyone's life has countless possibilities, and the choice of life belongs to himself. What parents should do is to believe that their children can handle their own affairs.

In children's life, parents should be the role of making suggestions and giving good ideas, and should be the guide and inspiring mentor of children, rather than arbitrary decision makers.

Healthy children should have respect besides love. This respect is not to spoil him and do whatever he wants, nor to say that he can't look on coldly.

Let children grow up in choices and learn to bear the consequences, instead of planning their lives and forcing them to implement them. Parents should respect not only their children, but also others. Children grow up in such an environment, not only learn to respect themselves, but also learn to respect others.

Children who are under the negative emotions of their parents for a long time are easy to become violent and lose their temper; On the other hand, the lack of parents' understanding will lead to the alienation of parent-child relationship.

If parents know how to control their emotions and let their children grow up in a positive environment, then most children are also people who can manage their emotions. When a child faces a problem, he will think rationally instead of being influenced by emotions.

Please believe that if you bring melancholy and pessimism to your child, the child will return to you with superiority and pessimism; If you dedicate happiness and joy to your children, they will repay you with happiness and joy.

Some people say, "whether education is good or not depends on the way parents talk."

Gentle language is indispensable in the family. Treat children with gentle, friendly and polite words.

Family is a place to relax and rest. Don't vent your social grievances and dissatisfaction on your family, and give them a look.

Children can grow up in a family that knows how to talk well and in the most friendly environment.

Family rules are not only for children, but also for every member of the family.

The more strict parents are with themselves, the more they will set a good example for their children.

For children, observing good family rules from childhood will become a habit rather than a constraint when they grow up.

Parents' every move will be deeply imprinted in their children's hearts; The family environment will eventually be reflected in the child's long life in the future.