1, enough love
The most valuable gift parents can give their children is "love"-generous and unconditional love. We should try our best to make our children feel that we love him. No matter how serious a mistake a child makes, a mother should have a tolerant heart towards her child.
There are some bad words that you'd better not use when criticizing children, such as "Go away, I never want to see you again", "If you don't listen, I won't want you" and "If you can't do it, don't come to me". This will only cut off the emotional connection between children and parents, and let us lose the opportunity to educate and guide children.
2. Spend as much time with your children as possible.
Every child needs to get enough attention from his parents. Every day after work, we should spare some time to participate in children's games, such as playing teachers, ticket sellers or football coaches or car drivers. The best two parent-child activities are reading and playing games together. Therefore, it's best to save time watching TV and use it to read books and play games with children.
Another point is to provide children with various opportunities and expose them to all kinds of things as much as possible. In this way, children can broaden their horizons and enrich their knowledge, and it is easier to choose the development space that suits them best in the future life journey.
3. Listen to your child.
Experienced parents suggest that it is a very valuable way to understand their feelings by listening to their children. No matter how big or small your child's problem is, try to find time to listen to what he says right away, instead of letting your child wait until you are free.
Talking with children provides us with an opportunity to understand and teach children. Listening to the child's conversation immediately will help win the child's trust, so that the child will be willing to tell us everything about him. It is also important for us to know what children are thinking.