Understand and respect children.

As parents, we must be clear about the characteristics of children's physical and mental development and their own positioning. It is normal for children to be timid and have all kinds of problems. Parents must respect their children and give them love.

Patient communication

The most effective way to solve the problem is to communicate with children and enlighten them. When communicating with children, parents should pay attention to the following points:

(1) Smile

Smiling will give people a feeling of peace and happiness, and will show their attitude towards children. Therefore, parents should always smile when facing their children, so as not to let them feel their anger, eliminate their nervousness and let them communicate with themselves easily and happily.

(2) softly

When communicating with children, parents must maintain emotional peace, even in the face of children who make mistakes, they must show patience and pay attention to their pronunciation and intonation.

(3) Moderate speech speed

Speaking speed will affect the effect of communication to a certain extent, especially speaking too fast will not only affect children's understanding of communication content, but also expose children's impatience and impatience.

Reward according to facts

Everyone can't have shortcomings, but they must have advantages. Parents should have a pair of eyes that are good at discovering, see the advantages of their children and give them more rewards. Even children who make mistakes will have advantages. It should be noted that when praising and encouraging, parents must seek truth from facts and not be false, otherwise it will lead to children's cognitive deviation.

4. The reasons for children's cowardice

Part of the reason why children are timid lies in their parents. Many parents like to yell at their children, which leads to psychological damage to their children, so they have such a personality. I hope parents will remember that they must follow the above principles when communicating with their children. I hope parents pay attention.