Cao Cao is the third-generation head of the Wei organization, and he is also the * * * who can best reflect the complex contradiction between opening and closing.

On the one hand, he is calm, wise and decisive, and he is young, but he shows calm, decisive and decisive personality characteristics when dealing with state affairs. He is well versed in the way that emperors control powerful ministers, and can well balance the relationship between the clans headed by Cao Zhen and Cao Xiu and the two senior auxiliary ministers headed by Chen Qun and Sima Yi, which not only gives them the opportunity to fight and restrict each other, but also avoids the crisis of dominating a country, and also allows them to work together in Qi Xin to stabilize the country. They should have the heroic momentum of visiting the battlefield and guarding the country, and have the ambition to manage their own affairs well.

Cao Cao's ability to manage courtiers is excellent, and he is good at appeasing and netting.

He arranged a mansion for Sima Yi who was dismissed from office by his father Cao Pi and returned to the imperial court. He thanked Sima Yi for saving himself at all costs, otherwise he would not be the son of heaven today. I hope Sima Yi can help herself in the future.

Outside the imperial court, he always called Cao Zhen "a long uncle and a short uncle", and he also made them close to himself on the surface. Everyone is a Cao Shi, posing as a more dependent on their own. Whenever the struggle between Sima Yi and them becomes too tense and intense, they will be punished a little to show their consideration for family face.

Although Cao Cao did not experience the test and training of militarization of the battlefield like his grandfather and father, he put the imperial court first and knew how to queue up to adjust troops.

Zhou Fu, the satrap of Poyang, Soochow, surrendered. Cao Cao ordered Cao Fuzhen to lead 100,000 troops and Sima Yi to lead 50,000 troops. The soldiers marched into Dongwu from Xunyang and Hanshui in two ways. Sima Yi naturally raised objections. After some bargaining, Cao Cao finally appointed Jia Kui, recommended by Sima Yi, as the army supervisor to supervise Cao Fu Town. Cao Chui made a decisive decision and made a careful plan for military affairs. When he was in charge of state power, his means and thoughts of governing the country and royal ministers had begun to emerge.

Zhuge Liang's northern expedition to Wei suffered three raids. Sima Yi was sent to Xincheng to lead the troops against Mengda, and Cao Zhen was sent to Xiliang defence. The main force of the Shu army marched into Pingyang, taking Nan 'an, Tianshui and Anding directly. The fall of the border town made Cao Cao furious. When the war spread to the imperial court, Cao Cao decided to go to Chang 'an by personal expedition in order to remedy the situation and not listen to the minister's advice. He said, "I don't want to lose an inch of land left by my ancestors." Showing the emperor's domineering ambition.

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On the other hand, he is crazy, hypocritical, cunning, dark, despicable and easy to bear grudges.

After Sima Yi returned to the DPRK to attend the funeral for Cao Pi, Cao Cao put away the kindness he had just disguised and coldly threw away the filial hat on his head. In the palace, Cao Cao called a painter to paint his birth mother Zhen Fu. The painters' paintings can't satisfy Cao Cao. The grumpy Cao Cao ordered all painters to be beheaded, and planned to call folk painters to paint his biological mother Zhen Fu. Anyone who can satisfy him can get a prize of one million dollars and win the Wan Huhou Prize. Father Cao Pi was buried, and son Cao Cao could not attend the funeral on the pretext of heatstroke. Cao Rui, who did not go to court, was arrogant and extravagant, and Toy Boy was raised in the harem, indulging in debauchery and enjoyment; Guan Zhong was hungry, but Cao Cao was inconsiderate and wasted money. On the contrary, he built great buildings, was extravagant and extravagant, and didn't care about the people.

Such distinctive and unique personality characteristics of both sides can be traced back to his childhood.

The positive aspect of Cao Cao's growth is that his biological mother Zhen Fu is not only born with beauty, but also proficient in poetry, music, piano, chess and calligraphy. She is a woman who combines talent and beauty. Therefore, Cao Cao's intelligence should not be underestimated under the influence of his mother when he was a child. He was influenced by his grandfather Cao Cao and his father Cao Pi in dealing with political affairs in the volatile political situation.

On the other hand, Zhen Fu, Cao Cao's biological mother, was unloved and executed by Xelloss mercilessly. He grew up in the grief of his mother's death, and it was difficult to forgive his father's ruthless, blaming all the pain and resentment on his father's beloved queen mother Guo Zhao. After taking office, he ruthlessly vowed to make Guo Zhao "full of rice bran".

Father xelloss doesn't love Zhen Fu, and naturally he doesn't like Cao Cao. In ancient male society, father's love is the real mountain. Without the dependence of mountains, there is no sense of security, no source of healthy mentality, and the relationship between parents also affects the inner development track of children.

Children look at right and wrong, and adults sometimes only look at pros and cons.

As for Cao Cao, after his childhood sufferings, he was unable to solve them, and his twisted temperament was full of hostility. Nobody really cares about him. Everyone only cares about his own interests and power. He is also living with trepidation on the road of growing up. Maybe he needs to constantly observe and suppress himself.

Liu Huan, as the actor of Cao Rui, made it vivid and profound. His eyes are always cold, and there is almost no emotion on his face. He just hid them. Regardless of anger, sneer, growl, emotional instability, smashing things, etc. , very vivid. The long-term repressed palace life caused serious psychological obstacles, thus forming a multifaceted life with multiple personalities, making him look half like sea water and half like a flame.

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There was once an article "Father's Pattern, Mother's Emotion, Family's Feng Shui" which was widely circulated in the circle of friends as a parent education model. It is mentioned that the father has a big pattern, and his wife and future generations will be well influenced. The mother's mood determines the temperature of a family and the harmony of a family.

If father is a mountain, mother is the sea. Mountains give people support and the sea gives people comfort.

If father is a lamp, mother is a fire. Lights illuminate the direction, and fire brings warmth.

Family is created by father and mother. Father's pattern and mother's mood determine the feng shui of the family.

Good parents are learned: there are no parents who are born successful, and there are no parents who don't need to learn. Successful parents are the result of continuous learning.

Many parents blame their children's poor health on schools, teachers and children, but they don't blame themselves. Most excellent children are the result of quality education, while problem children is the product of problem families. Most of the children's problems are not caused by the children themselves, but reflect the parents' problems. Without the change of parents, there will be no change of children.

Give children a harmonious home: The most important thing for children to grow up healthily is a peaceful family environment. First of all, the family atmosphere gives him a sense of psychological security and happiness, which can make children develop in an all-round way. We should not only give children a harmonious and happy study space, but also cultivate their life skills. Finally, spend time with children and share the joy of success in learning and playing games, and children will have a happy growth space.