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Good advice

= = Kind and helpful words.

Lu Wenshu's Biography of Hanshu: "Defamation is not punished, and then good words are advanced."

The second time of Jin Ping Mei Hua Ci: "I Ximen Qing was in a daze for a while, didn't listen to your kind words, and failed to live up to your kindness."

The fifth paragraph of Yang Shuo's "Three Thousand Miles of Rivers and Mountains": "As the old saying goes,' a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. "Be a * * * and be careful what you say."