My son also hates the way his mother talks, because what her mother says often hurts him. But his mother's exemplary role day after day, like a spell, made him irresistible. Finally, he copied his mother's speech pattern. This is actually a long infiltration process: at first, when my son was attacked by his mother, he felt very painful. But at the same time, he also deeply realized the lethality of this expression. So he learned to fight back against his mother and attack others in this way.