Many children say they are tired of listening to their parents' nagging. Parents might as well think for themselves, if the other spouse is always nagging, are you bored? The husband's nagging annoys his wife, and the wife's nagging annoys her husband. Therefore, nagging is one of the stupid ways of tutoring.

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Some nagging styles are also swearing styles. Always scolding children, why not study hard? How are you? Always criticizing there. Criticism is more vicious than nagging because it often has the nature of condemnation. Dictation counseling often destroys children's learning state and suppresses their enthusiasm for learning.

3, reprimand, beat and scold

Scolding and beating may make children rebellious, which will not only improve their grades, but also make them more tired of learning and even play truant. Parents repeatedly hold on to their children's shortcomings because they failed several exams, thinking that their children's problems can change their grades as long as they are severely reprimanded. As a result, the child was frightened, not only closed his ears, but also closed the door.

4. Standard type

It is stipulated that the average score of children in the next exam must reach how many points, and the ranking should be in the top few, which is called the standard type. Reaching the standard is also a way of tutoring that hurts children's enthusiasm. First, a standard is set for children, which makes them particularly nervous, and children are often more worried about not meeting the standard.

5. Fatigue type

Schools engage in sea tactics, and parents increase study time and study topics. This is fatigue education. Children's energy is limited. Overloaded study will bring harm to children's physical and mental health. In the end, more haste makes less progress, which will lead to children's worse and worse study.

6. Arrangement and accompanying reading style

For children's study, parents worry about him, ask questions, give endless counseling, and accompany their children to study all day. In this way, children's learning autonomy is gone. On the other hand, it is easy for children to misunderstand that learning is not only his personal business, but also highly dependent.

7, urging type

? It is time for you to do your homework. It is time for you to review. Many mothers like to repeatedly emphasize to their children that if they are tired of listening, they may say: I originally wanted to learn, so I don't want to learn if you urge me. The child's rebellious mentality is getting bigger and bigger.

8. pull a long face

Always worried about children, so it is also called worry type. Parents' emotions have a great influence on their children. When a child comes home, if he is faced with a face of criticizing himself, scolding, beating and cursing, and pulling a long face, the child may fundamentally lose the fun of studying at home.

9. laissez-faire

This is a responsible way of tutoring. What do parents think children are? Adults don't have to worry, but are they adults? Busy with work, career or business all day to make money; What is provided to children is only the guarantee of life, but they don't care about their inner world, hobbies, academic friendship, etc. Even run amok in front of children.