What is "low voice education"
"Education in a low voice" refers to the opposite way of educating children.
Children aged 3 to 7 are more likely to be educated by their parents if they are taught in a low and gentle tone.
Some experimental studies by psychologists have proved that there is a certain scientific basis.
Water is soft but powerful. Low-pitched education, like water, makes children feel the power of maternal love while accepting mistakes.
1, educate children that yelling is not recommended.
There are two results:
First, the child is frightened, his head is blank and full of fear, and he has no ability to think about what he has done wrong and how to change it. He just wants to end this torture as soon as possible.
Second, the children who are angered by you are also yelling at you, just trying to resist you and unwilling to admit their problems.
Often reprimanding your child loudly will not only get no effect, but will make your child more rebellious and talk to you less often.
2. Education in a low voice has its own advantages.
When you talk to your child in a low voice, calm tone and serious tone,
You will become "angry and arrogant" in the eyes of children. The child knows that you are talking to him seriously now, but you won't panic.
At this time, it will be much better to reason with children and say things.
A deep voice can make adults more rational and calm and prevent children's self-esteem from being hurt by words.
And adults don't speak loudly, and children don't use high notes.
Especially families with boys.
We should use "low voice education" more.
Teach you something about talking to children. You can teach them:
Urgent, speak slowly;
Major events, clearly stated;
Small things, said humorously;
If you are not sure, then talk about what didn't happen carefully, and don't talk nonsense.
If you can't do something, don't promise to say something bad about others, and don't say: happy things, according to the occasion.