After humble parents become parents, they will have more responsibilities to bear. And education is one of the things that parents are most concerned about. A child's educational environment often determines his future growth trend. It is true that some students with low academic qualifications have still achieved great success, and their economic income and social status are enough to reach a respectable level.
However, compared with these successful cases, what parents want is that their children can win at the starting line. They understand that a good school and a competent teacher will play an important role in children's growth. Therefore, many parents do not hesitate to spend huge energy and financial resources, but also let their children attend the best schools and receive more targeted and successful education.
If you want to receive this kind of education, you need to own your own house in some specific areas. Everyone should know how expensive the school district is. There are also related stories in some TV dramas. Parents will not hesitate to sell the big house, but also go to the designated place to buy a school district that doesn't look very good. Making such great efforts is only to give children a better educational environment.
Education is probably the hardest thing for parents to help. So I want to do more and more. In front of the teacher, parents always put down their posture and impress each other with sincerity. What they hope is that their children can get more attention. I still remember that in some reports, many parents were collapsed by the homework assigned by WeChat group, and even shed tears. The bitterness of this is that for the sake of children, he knows that he can't say no, can't give up, or even show any reluctance.
Behind the selfless adventures and humble gestures of humble parents, they all hope that their children can become talents. However, it is hard to say whether children can meet their parents' expectations. In addition, after parents make every effort for their children, children may not be grateful or even blame their parents.
Because, often parents need to spend most of their time at work after giving their children a good living environment and educational environment. In the part of accompanying children, it is often not done very well. In addition, children's learning may be the most unbearable problem for parents.
Conflicts often arise between parents and children. Lack of company fills your time. Not wanting to be a learning machine is the real feeling of some children. Because they are not parents, but children who have not grown up. Therefore, what they care about is a happy life.
Happiness for them is companionship and care, happiness and freedom. Parents provide superior living environment and exquisite food and clothing. Parents know more about the importance of material things, while most children pay more attention to spiritual feelings.
Therefore, after parents give everything, what they get is the child's incomprehension. This should be the humblest place for parents. Those who devote themselves wholeheartedly to it have become the most self-blaming people.
To sum up, parents certainly know what their children want. However, parents are more aware of the reality and arduousness of the social environment. Therefore, even if the figure and dignity are left behind, they will be misunderstood by children. I still hope that children can be in a slightly leading position in the process of growing up. Because they understand that this little clue is likely to change a child's life. Even if it is humble, it doesn't matter if it is wronged. As long as the children live well.