That can't be helped. You can only observe and monitor children's life preferences and worry about the love of each parent for their children. If your child is in crisis now, then you should not change him directly, because you may not be able to manage it. Let's take a boy as an example Your change will take some time and process. Boys in this constellation are basically born with depression. Besides, it is easy to admit death. Don't stop until you hit the south wall. He won't be cruel to you unless you are kind to him.

From the perspective of education, it is our parents' responsibility to treat every child seriously. If your child is rebellious now, or does things in an extreme way, then you must pay serious attention to this matter. The only thing you have to do is to observe his daily actions and ways of doing things, give him meetings every day, or give him some guidance and education. We can't let him go astray at an early age. It's best to make an appointment with him alone. For example, if he is at home on weekends, or has no time from Monday to Friday, then make an appointment on Sunday to educate and guide him and get to know his heart and brain. Understanding and feeling of things.

If you are a rational parent, I think you can make a little episode. You can get sick, need the care of your child, see how the child reacts, or pretend to faint. See what he thinks the first time. Communicate with him through these things, because only these things can make him communicate with you defenseless.

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Of course, we must grasp the scale, don't ask too deep, and some children may not understand. If he is willing to talk to you, it is still good. He is a good boy. He must have been wronged, or something made him resent. If these things happen, you can come forward and take the children to solve them later. If it is something else, it is also a good choice to listen to your child's thoughts before making a decision.