It is true that some universities offer sex education courses, but in general, only a few schools. Most schools do not have such courses, and some are only elective courses. Whether to talk about how to use condoms depends on the attitude of educators. Generally, contraceptive knowledge such as condoms is now introduced. If the school doesn't have corresponding courses, you need to bear the relevant responsibilities. If you need the corresponding information, you can look at my cyberspace and ask for it like me.
⑵ Sex education should be "timely, appropriate and appropriate".
Sex education says it is necessary! ? Sexual problems, sexually reproducing species say that things are instinctive. Breeding populations must breed. Plants are all males, pigs, cows, cats and so on. And it can be said on any occasion during the period of * * *, but it is ethical and can be carried out in public at will. Thousands of feudal societies are closed to the outside world and let sex cover their faces, which is very mysterious. Explore secrets. How many brains are there in adolescence? () Ask mom, mom's answer is misleading. In the line of the drama "Lift the Wrong Flower Bridge to Marry a Husband", the bride dares to take off her shoes to sleep, and the groom asks her where she is. The bride replied, "I'm afraid the doll will be stuffed under my feet." If I love my mother. It is mentioned in the article that the couple didn't know the original packaging until they got married and had several children. Seeing that sex education is necessary. Especially in modern society, sex education for teenagers is more necessary. Eliminate doubts. "Children daydream again, obey the rules. See their mother and make good use of them. When they came to China, they contacted some young people and talked about the lack of sexual knowledge. Modern release often does something special. Some single-parent families are left unattended and uneducated, and I sympathize with them. We tried our best to help them follow the clues. We should discuss how the yellow belt is flooded and closed, and why it should be banned. Strange, let us see more. It's strange to uncover the mystery. It is necessary to look at dirty eyes. It is necessary to prevent some healthy yellow flooding. I know my friends in China agree with me. Sex education for children is very important for every baby. In the theory of infant sex education, we should pay attention to accuracy. Let me look at sex education in infancy. Infant sex education only tells children that I understand the segmented structure, including physical knowledge and judgment, and gender awareness education in intimate relationships. When a baby looks at the smiling face of his mother and father, his eyes should be equal. In the first month, we should always look less at mother's father and look at the balance between two babies. When they look at their mother, they always smile. Father's careful and flexible accumulation is about the judgment of gender differences. My handout shows that the judgment may be wrong. The baby's ear right can be heard from the male gender and gentle voice. Although he knows some language meanings, he can know the tone, intonation, speech speed and so on. The information provided is conformal to the first impression of male gender, which can affect the skin rights of infants. Accept the gentle caress posture and coordinate it to make some stiff cries. The original hug is comfortable, which affects the baby's right to close contact with his lips. It is sweet to enjoy breast milk. Conducive to the baby's immunity and overall health. Breast milk acts on my sexual nature and my mother's intimate channel. According to Freud's explanation, sucking satisfies my lips and brings me a sense of security, letting me know that establishing intimate relationship with another person only provides a sense of security and provides a kind of intimacy and caress. For every soul, the right to have a baby's sex organs is very important. Please wait for the baby to change the dirty diaper before being gentle. Be gentle, especially when bathing the baby. Please choose the baby's skin suitable for receiving warm water. Wipe gently with a soft cotton towel ... for a baby boy, it is necessary to turn the foreskin over and clean up the dirt. When cleaning the baby, be sure to clean the baby's foreskin without dirt. In the same way, clean the baby × clean the sex organs. Dangerous operation with water temperature will affect any part of the baby. () The perfect development of sexual consciousness is too exaggerated. Never explain it according to psychoanalysis. What psychoanalysts want to analyze is that every psychological state is deeply influenced by its infancy experience. The deep roots of this disease can be traced back to infancy, even infancy. The psychologist told me that I could attract parents' attention and touch between babies. At the beginning, the intimacy and fullness of the relationship between parents and children affect the relationship between children and the opposite sex. From the perspective of psychoanalysis, the essence of the opposite sex in my school is that I need my parents to extend and turn around with the growth of age. I will talk about the important fact of breastfeeding before. Even if a child needs to feed food with a spoon for several months, the subtle differences in feeding will affect the child's physical spirit and even national temperament. Many important research methods, such as feeding a liquid spoon into the baby's mouth, filling speed, strength and so on, all affect the child's training. Infants and young children will cultivate the virtues of attachment and children's self-pity, self-confidence and independence. I know that a self is more independent of the world or its environment, and the essence of attachment and dependence is the same. It refers to some mental patients who didn't take a look at the sex education in childhood. With regard to sex education in early childhood, children began to know the difference between male genitals at the age of 3-4, and the strangeness of genitals at the age of 8-9 continued. Now they have experienced the relationship between early sex education and children's health, and there are several forgetting periods. Family social stability can be recognized by sex educators, and Lu Xun first paid attention to children's sex education. Cognition is more beneficial than knowledge. A simple understanding of sex education involves theory, rationality, society and morality. Early sexual moral education for children in all aspects must be carried out in strict accordance with their age and physical characteristics. Otherwise, the appropriate response should be gradual, guided by the situation and splashed. It should be forced, dogmatic and vulgar. Don't indoctrinate children with thoughts, family words and deeds, sexual filth, sexual terror, etc. The influence of children should be subtle. It is necessary to create a good family atmosphere, enrich children's content, cultivate all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, and prevent obscene books and periodicals. Movies and TV have a good influence on children. Parents should have fun or have sex in front of their children. Pay attention to correcting children's good habits. They like to hold their mother's pillow, sleep in their underwear and play with their genitals. * * * * watching the opposite sex take a bath. Children realize the necessity of asking questions when their parents are 2-3 years old. Some lines (playing with genitals and peeping at organs, etc. ) be honest and realistic, seek answers, guide them to conduct accurate education, and eliminate their doubts. If you are shy, vague, evasive and reprimanded, it will lead to all kinds of strange associations and even sexual depression and inferiority. As for some parents, it will hinder their children's gender identity, which often leads to abnormal phenomena such as sexual role deviation, homosexuality, sexual perversion and transvestite. China reminded: Sex education for infants is really important, which affects the rational and healthy development of babies. Parents should act quickly ~
(3) Should schools carry out sex education?
For a long time, promoting sex education in schools is the biggest voice in current society. However, why is sex education not promoted in schools? Is it because the school can't hear the appeal of society? Or does the Education Bureau not attach importance to sex education? Actually, it's not. The Ministry of Education has been issuing many documents. But there are indeed many difficulties in implementing sex education in schools.
Not enough class hours
Influenced by exam-oriented education, the class hours of primary and secondary education are basically full at present. And comprehensive sex education is not covered by a physiology class at all. The Guide to International Education issued by UNESCO also points out that comprehensive and comprehensive sex education can only be called comprehensive education if it includes at least 12 class hours or more.
Of course, sex education as an independent course is the most ideal. At present, it is more realistic to incorporate sex education into existing courses, such as physical health classes in primary schools and science classes in middle schools. But even so, it is still impossible to tell the whole content of sex education. Sex education for children is not to accomplish an indicator or task. Not today, the school held a lecture on children's sex education. After the lecture, sex education for children turned over.
Lack of teachers
Teachers who can carry out sex education courses in schools cannot simply concentrate on a short-term training. Moreover, most teachers are embarrassed to talk about sex themselves, let alone give their children a comprehensive and comprehensive sex education class.
And there are so many schools and teachers in this country. Even if there is only one sex education teacher in each school, it is a huge project.
Lack of suitable teaching materials
Although there are already excellent teams developing teaching materials for children's sex education, such as the research group of children's sex education in Beijing Normal University. But the unified sex education curriculum can't adapt to individual differences. Because each child has different physical development, different family environment and different values. Therefore, the unified sex education curriculum can not adapt to the development of every child. For example, explain to fifth-grade girls what menstruation is. Perhaps some people in this class have already menstruated, and they have already faced the embarrassment and fear of menarche. This knowledge is an afterthought for them. For another part of the girls who haven't menstruated, the content may be just right.
To sum up, in fact, for children, school sex education is not the most timely way for children to get sex education, nor is it the most appropriate way.
My son is going to junior high school. Is there a sex education class in junior high school?
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There is nothing wrong with not doing well in the senior high school entrance examination. It's not the college entrance examination. I have seen many junior high school students get top grades and fall into high school. As for cohesion, apart from English,
Chinese has nothing to do with anything else. As long as you study hard in high school, it is no problem to get into a good university.
Do middle school students need sex education classes?
Just attend, because middle school students are in adolescence and are curious about the opposite sex. Sex education helps middle school students understand some common sense about sex, which is beneficial to their physical and mental health.
[6] Why is sex education difficult to enter the classroom?
Xiaohua, a junior high school student, recently encountered an embarrassing thing: at home that day, his father asked him a question about that, and the young man's face turned red with a brush: "Why do you ask this?" Shut the door with a bang and drill back into the house. The child's abnormal reaction startled his father-didn't the child learn relevant knowledge at school?
Boys in Grade Two have the most sexual doubts.
"Junior two boys are the group with the greatest doubts about sexual health issues." Li Yue, a senior high school psychology teacher in Beijing Guangqumen Middle School and the head of the teaching and research group of the school's mental health education course, said. She introduced that at this stage, students' physical secondary characteristics have begun to develop obviously, and their curiosity and incomprehension of the body easily make students extend from sexual physiological problems to sexual psychological problems.
Wo Jianzhong, a professor of psychology at Beijing Normal University, once conducted a survey: At present, the overall incidence of sexual behavior among middle school students is 1.4%, including 2.29% for high school students and 0.49% for junior high school students. The proportion of high-frequency * * * among middle school students is 5%, both male and female students have it.
In addition, most of the sexual psychological problems caused by sexual physiological problems began in junior high school, especially some boys who were spoiled by their mothers since childhood, and obviously lacked masculinity when their physical characteristics began to develop. Students' lack of personality education for men and women has also caused a large number of "neutral" phenomena.
Lack of teachers is especially rare for male teachers.
Students have a lot of sexual doubts, but school education is hard to keep up with. Absence of classes, textbooks and teachers are common difficulties for sex education to enter the classroom, especially for male teachers. At present, there is only one male teacher in the teaching and research group in Li Yue, and she is also the secretary of the Youth League Committee of the school. His classes are always popular with boys. When it's the female teacher's turn, the students are not so active.
There are only two full-time teachers in Li Yue Teaching and Research Group, and the other three are * * *. Compared with many other schools, the teaching staff of this course is still good, and some schools simply don't offer this course because of the shortage of teachers.
Teachers who lack teaching materials have to check online.
Textbooks are another difficult problem for sex education to enter the classroom. Because the content of each class is different, the content of the reference textbook is also a compilation of materials collected by teachers from all over the country. Li Yue said that due to the lack of standardized teaching materials, the teaching and research team is currently preparing school-based courses, but it will take three years of trial operation.
Wo Jianzhong said that at present, the main way for teenagers to acquire sexual knowledge is classroom, but the effect of classroom education is not ideal. Two years ago, he led the research group to compile relevant teaching materials for the whole city. Although the start was good, the stamina was insufficient.
When absent from class, biology class talks about physiology.
Beijing Guangqumen Middle School specially wrote a chapter on adolescent education in senior two biology class, which involved physical development and AIDS prevention. In addition, if there is a class that needs this course, it is necessary to apply to the teaching and research group for "sending the class into the class".
If the head teacher finds that the students have problems to solve, she will inform Li Yue, and then she and the team members will prepare a lesson plan for this problem, and then arrange the class time to come to class. However, this method has aroused some students' psychological resistance, because they are "afraid of being laughed at"-if any class comes to class and sees Li Yue and them, it means that some students in this class have problems in this respect, then this class may be laughed at.
In the investigation and study of Wo Jianzhong, it is often found that some schools misappropriate health education classes at will. "This largely depends on the importance that school leaders attach to this course." (Jinke)
China's first adolescent sexual health education base was unveiled.
Recently, the first adolescent sexual health education base in China was unveiled at Anhuili Central Primary School in Chaoyang District, Beijing. Starting from this year, students of all grades in Anhuili Central Primary School will have two sexual health education classes every semester, and the sexual health class will enter the primary school classroom as a formal course for the first time.
Li Yinhe, a famous sexologist, said that statistics prove that Chastity Education is ineffective in delaying adolescent sexual behavior. Modern scientific adolescent sexual health education is not Chastity Education, but focuses on imparting correct physiological knowledge to students and promoting them to form healthy sexual concepts.
Dr. Fang Gang, the chief expert of the Youth Sexual Health Education Base, said that as the first sexual health education institution with a permanent exhibition hall in China, the expert team of the base is stepping up research and development of a series of textbooks for youth sexual health education. In the future, the base will be open to primary and secondary school students all over the country, offering sexual health education courses from grade one to senior high school.
800,000 sex education books meet middle school students in Beijing.
A few days ago, the Beijing Population and Family Planning Commission launched 800,000 copies of sexual health education books "Growing Pains" and "The Most Beautiful Flower Season" to middle school students in the city. The district family planning committee is distributing them to schools.
According to reports, at present, readers are only distributed to junior and senior high school students as extracurricular reading materials, and there is not one person, and they are mainly circulated. Readers explain adolescent sexual health knowledge in the form of real stories and cartoons. How to avoid pregnancy in the communication between boys and girls, and emergency contraceptive measures after sexual relations are all in the book.
(7) Do freshmen need sex education classes?
Most schools do not offer this course.
According to some students' questions, I summarized them. Freshmen should prepare the following things when registering, and pay attention to the following matters:
1. Relevant certificates. Including: ID card, admission notice (admission notice), household registration certificate, proof of party and group organization relationship (letter of introduction), several one-inch registration photos (you can bring more for other purposes) and so on. These are all very important. Don't forget them. In addition, the parents, grandparents, that is, close relatives' names, dates of birth, work units, occupations and positions are clearly stated and filled in. You need to fill out various forms when you go to school, and some forms need this information.
2. Money and cards. You have to pay tuition and accommodation (about 4,500-500 yuan and 1 1,000 yuan each year), totaling about 6,000 yuan (some majors may be higher, such as art majors). Because freshmen go out less and have less travel safety experience, it is recommended to bring less cash (but thousands of dollars are still needed in case of emergency). You can get a credit card or a stored-value card at home to pay tuition and fees. Some schools will send you a card so that students can deposit money. You can use this card or not. If the family conditions are ok, it is convenient and safe to get a credit card, which is associated with parents' stored value cards (such as salary cards) and deduct money directly from parents' cards after swiping the card every month. But if you don't want your parents to know about your consumption, you can set up a stored-value card in your hometown (let your parents cash it out) and then set up a credit card to associate with it. You can also apply for stored-value cards and credit cards at school, but then your parents will have to pay a handling fee for transferring money to your stored-value cards in different places.
Under normal circumstances, every school has to distribute some school and daily necessities, which are not given to you for free. You have to spend money to buy them. The goods delivered by the school are of poor quality and expensive. It is suggested that what the school sends out should be avoided as much as possible. If you can buy it yourself, don't buy it from school. Some necessities can be prepared before you leave home, lest you can't buy them because you are unfamiliar.
4. Clothes and bedding. You should bring your usual clothes, spring, summer, autumn and winter, unless the school is close to your hometown or your parents have the opportunity to come to school on business to bring you something. At least two or three sets of underwear and socks, and at least two sets of coats every season. If the place where you live now is similar to the geography, weather and living environment of the city where you want to go to school, then the things you prepare are similar to those in your hometown; If the difference is too big, bring some clothes that the city needs (for example, if you live in the north, but the city where you go to school is in the south, you don't need to bring too thick thermal underwear). The same is true for bedding. To go to school in summer, you can bring a thin quilt (such as a towel quilt), bring your own thick quilt, or buy it after school. Mats can be bought at school according to the width of the bed, and sheets and pillows (pillowcases) can be brought by themselves or bought at school.
5. Wash your daily necessities. Bring toothpaste, toothbrush, towel, mouthwash cup, soap, shampoo, comb, mobile phone (depending on family conditions), etc. For use on the road and after school. Boys should bring razors, and girls should bring all kinds of feminine products and facial cleanser. As for washbasins, clothes hangers, slippers, umbrellas, water bottles, nail clippers, scissors, knives and desk lamps, you don't need to bring them. Some schools will send them, even if you don't send them, it's not expensive to buy them yourself (these daily necessities are also very convenient to buy at school, and shopping with roommates can quickly shorten the distance). You can bring a camera to take pictures of yourself and your classmates when you can, which is also a good way of interpersonal communication.
6. school supplies. You can take a few pens, notebooks, dictionaries, dictionaries (English-Chinese dictionary, including powerful electronic dictionary) and schoolbags (backpacks). If the school does not allow it, family conditions allow you to bring a notebook. But it's best not to bring it, especially when you are obsessed with surfing the internet or playing games. Taking a notebook will affect your study life and normal communication with your classmates. In addition, you can also prepare some medicines or band-AIDS used in your life. Although it is not necessary, it is very convenient to find it when necessary.
7. suitcase if the family conditions are not so good and the money can't be spent, there is no need to buy anything too expensive. You can buy a better one after graduation. The box can be bigger, and it can hold your own clothes and articles for daily use and study that are not commonly used. But not too big, so it is not easy to carry, and it is not easy to put in the school dormitory. Generally speaking, about 80 cm long and 50-60 cm wide are preferred.
8. If possible, bring some local specialties, not necessarily for teachers, but for your roommates or classmates. After all, you have been with them for four years, and the sooner you get to know them, the better.
10. If you take the train, you can enjoy the student ticket discount with the admission notice.
1 1. A little advice: college students should bravely climb the peak, join mass organizations, and do what they can. The more social practice in colleges and universities, the better. If you have difficulties, respect teachers' questions, get along with classmates with tolerance, and college love is not encouraged or opposed.
12. entrance examination and physical examination. Some universities should organize freshmen to take entrance examinations for several cultural courses within a period of time after they report for duty, focusing on those whose examination results are quite different from those of the college entrance examination. If you didn't cheat in the exam, don't worry. The scope and difficulty of the exam will not exceed the college entrance examination, and it doesn't matter whether the exam is good or not. Physical examination is also very easy, unless you have a serious illness that does not meet the admission requirements, and you played tricks in the college entrance examination, it generally doesn't matter. As long as you have a normal physical examination and a normal college entrance examination, there is no problem with both. Now you can rest assured to play!
Of course, there is also an entrance exam, which is to prepare for various classes, such as students with good English scores being assigned to English fast classes.
13. Freshmen must receive military training, usually only for two weeks. According to the provisions of the national defense education law, organizing students to carry out military training is a concrete action to implement the national defense education law and an important measure to promote quality education and cultivate high-quality national defense reserve forces for the country and the army. Participating in military training can enhance the friendship between students and should be actively involved. If the physical condition does not allow, you should make it clear to the counselor or class teacher as soon as possible to avoid accidents.
14. The dormitory was arranged before you went, so don't worry. Accommodation conditions are good and bad. Don't get too attached to this. The most important thing is to get along well with roommates. Don't think that you can't adapt to bad accommodation. People's adaptability is very strong. Poor living conditions are good for your future growth, work and life, no matter how rich your family is!
15. The major is not ideal. Change majors. General schools can change their majors after one year in school. There are two ways to change majors. One is because the original major is difficult to learn, and the school will help you transfer to a better major (but generally not a very good major or a hot major); The other is that you want to change your favorite major. In this case, the qualification examination is generally conducted by the department you want to transfer to, and you can only transfer after passing the examination. Some schools have to pay fees.
(8) Is it necessary for primary school students to offer sex education courses?
It is necessary to help children establish scientific sexual awareness and promote their healthy growth.
The establishment of sex education requires qualified teachers, teaching materials approved by the administrative department of education, and sex education courses must meet the requirements of the law.
I'm in high school, and I heard from others … I want to ask if I have to take a sex education class in high school … will the teacher teach this …
Teachers can teach, but there will be no imitation, so don't be shy, just say something superficial! Then I'll tell you what not to do It's best not to fall in love too early, okay?
⑽ Why is there no sex education experimental class in China?
The Statistical Bulletin of National Education Development in 20 1 1 issued by the Ministry of Education shows that the total scale of all kinds of higher education in China has reached 31670,000, and the gross enrollment rate of higher education has reached 26.9%. There are 2,762 colleges and universities for adults in China, an increase of 39 over the previous year. Among them, there are 2409 ordinary colleges (including 309 independent colleges), an increase of 51over the previous year; There are 353 adult colleges and universities, a decrease of 12 over the previous year.
At present, only two universities in China take sex education as a minor course. One is Capital Normal University and the other is Chengdu University. Li Bian interviewed the principals of sex education minor in these two universities respectively, hoping to know the general situation of sex education in China universities.
Professor hu zheng from Chengdu University said that it is not common for universities to offer sex education courses. There are seventy or eighty colleges and universities in Sichuan Province, including vocational and technical colleges, but only three or four of them offer sex education courses at present. They are Sichuan Normal University, Chengdu University and Chengdu Institute of Technology (formerly Chengdu Institute of Electronics). These schools are long-term, with more than a dozen opened intermittently. Leshan Teachers College, for example, opened for a while and then stopped.
Why are there ups and downs? This is related to the open mechanism of universities. Chengdu University stipulates that each subordinate college should offer 2 to 10 public elective courses to the whole school. Whether it can be opened or not depends on two factors. One is that teachers in various colleges should declare themselves: what courses should I open? In addition, there are 30 students to register. If the teacher doesn't report, of course, this course can't be opened. For example, the teacher who had a sex education class before Leshan Normal University later said that she was busy and couldn't open it, so she wouldn't open it. Some classes, teachers are willing to open, but the total enrollment is less than 30. Hu zheng said that some courses, in her opinion, are very good courses, but less than 30 students signed up, so it is not easy to start. Chengdu University has fifty or sixty courses each semester.
How about the elective course of sexual health education in Chengdu University? According to Professor hu zheng, porridge should be in short supply. Chengdu University chooses courses through the Internet. Hu zheng teaches sexual health education for 32 class hours, quota 100. Generally, it will be full within half an hour after it is published online. Later, it was changed into a 300-person classroom. As a result, all the students were selected within one hour. Anonymous students have great opinions. Therefore, Professor hu zheng arrested Mr. Wu Yintao and offered an elective course in sex education. Whether it is the number of applicants 150 or 200, it is very fast. Later, Mr. Xu was added, and 200 students signed up, which was soon full. Counting three teachers, a total of 700 elective places are provided, but in fact, it still can't cover all students.
According to the enrollment plan of Chengdu University in 20 1 1 year, the university will recruit 42 undergraduate freshmen in 2 1 provinces (cities and autonomous regions) in 20 1 year, and plans to recruit 2,060 junior college freshmen in the province, with a total enrollment plan of 6,270.
The above is the situation of Sichuan Province introduced by Professor hu zheng. So, what is the situation in this country? Professor Zhang Meimei from Capital Normal University said that there are still many universities in China offering courses related to sex education, but only the First Normal University and Chengdu University call sex education directly. There are actually quite a few courses involving sex education. Many medical colleges, such as Rushan University of Western Medicine, Shanghai Second Medical University, Sun Yat-sen Medical University, Peking University School of Medicine, etc. , there are related courses. However, there are no fewer than a dozen normal universities offering sex education courses. Of course, normal university, every province has it. There are also normal universities and normal colleges in various prefecture-level cities. It's hard to say whether it can be opened.
As far as the overall situation is concerned, we lack a survey. To get accurate data, special investigation is needed, and manpower and material resources are needed. It is best to invite a special investigation company to conduct an investigation. I'm afraid ordinary academic institutions don't have this manpower. Generally speaking, according to experience, the development of sex education in universities should be said to be better than imagined and a little worse than the actual needs. There are similar courses in this field, but they are not in place. Whether it is just right to satisfy students and quench their thirst may not be much. Of course, we can solve some problems, and we can't be so demanding.