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What is pua in a relationship?
PUA is a kind of "scavenger". However, some netizens questioned his "love skills". In essence, he brainwashed the target object through a series of packaging and verbal deduction, and gradually evolved into deception, money cheating, seduction and so on. Finally, the purpose of emotional manipulation was achieved. The breeding of PUA phenomenon reflects people's misunderstanding of individual rights and dignity, intimacy, violence, sexual attraction and gender norms. To put an end to PUA, we must establish correct cognition, attitude and skills about respect and rights, gender, gender and relationship through comprehensive education. Precautionary measures: keep yourself.

In any relationship, self is always the most important. Once you lose yourself, your destiny is handed over to others, and you are played at any time and place. Be rational. People are emotional animals, but when they are hot-headed, they need to respect facts, analyze facts, be rational enough and make independent judgments. The full name of "girl-picking artist" originally refers to men constantly updating and improving their emotional intelligence through systematic study and practice, and later refers to attracting and charming people of the opposite sex and their related behaviors. PUA has caused many violations of citizens' individual rights, which have been banned and severely cracked down by the international community.

China's legislation also mentions illegal acts related to PUA, and the Cyber Security Law of the People's Republic of China contains provisions to restrict and punish acts related to PUA. Extended information: PUA women who have experienced PUA will cry for no reason, lose sleep all night, suppress anxiety, and have great rejection and suspicion of any boy around them. The psychological trauma of women injured by PUA is almost irreversible, which is different from general lovelorn. Many victimized women have long-term doubts about men, dislike and hate men, and resist intimate relationships. It will take years to get out. PUA adds emotional packaging, and the "lover" relationship makes it difficult for victims to defend their rights.

Many PUA behaviors are difficult to define by legal means, and there are difficulties in legal application and evidence collection. Eye-catching and numerous PUA teaching courses are flooded with the Internet. Many courses challenge the bottom line of social morality and tend to infringe on personal and property rights, which is harmful to society and has a bad influence. PUA thought is very harmful to those who agree with it. Like MLM Group, the main content of PUA course is value bombing. On the one hand, it criticizes learners' existing love views (often mainstream and traditional), on the other hand, it publicizes their intolerant and pluralistic love views. Such bombing of values has impacted the original values of relevant thought learners, leading to confusion and distortion of their thoughts.