After a long period of exploration, I have summarized the following points:
First, leave her alone and see what happens next. If she is right, let her go. If she is wrong, she can verbally persuade education or cold violence, but she does not advocate hot violence.
Second, the specific analysis of specific problems can be divided into principled and unprincipled. Principled, within the tolerable range, refers to psychology and body. You can do whatever you want.
Third, we should deal with it according to family conditions, you know.
Fourth, we should deal with it according to our own ability and strength. You can't ask your wife blindly Look at this. Look at that. It's not pleasing to the eye. You should see yourself first.
Fifth, women still have to be coaxed.
Sixth, what others say is useless, and it is not easy to apply it to yourself. You have to explore it yourself.
But in any case, we must not advocate violence, and family harmony is the most important.