Some people's emotional experience is rewarding, while others are spinning around and even spending. For us, the ex is not only an unforgettable feeling, but also an extremely valuable life experience. Learning from the last relationship is a compulsory course for adults.
I think for those who choose to give up their present jobs to find their predecessors after watching a movie, they have never learned how to cherish and love a person from their last relationship, because if they deeply love a person, they will not break up from the beginning, and if they cherish a person, they will not choose to give up their present jobs.
In fact, it is not so much what our predecessors taught us as what we learned from our predecessors and our last relationship. Whether it is a hasty conclusion or a peaceful breakup, the predecessor should bring us more positive significance.
The balance between love and self recently a popular saying on the Internet: "If a couple has not been married for three years, there is a high probability that they will not get married." Long-term love, if the man's material foundation has been reached and he has no plans to get married, then one of them must have problems.
On the other hand, many couples, both men and women, are good at actively participating in their feelings, but rarely consider the word "responsible", whether they are responsible for themselves or each other.
After eight years of love, Joey Yung and Bosco Wong finally said "I do". After four years of love, Ji Chenling and Adi left only one sentence: "You loved the sea, and I loved you." Now that the 9-year relationship between Grace Chow and Show Lo has ended, should we think about the responsibility in our past relationship?
A relationship, if not bound by responsibility, will eventually become fragmented, and the best performance of responsibility is the planning and execution of feelings, irresponsible performance to the other party, and timely stop loss, which is the advanced self-discipline of adults.
Our predecessors let us grow up to understand that love is not the whole of life.
0 1), a couple who have been together for several years, it only takes one second to break up. In each other's feelings, everyone has really loved each other, but no one can guarantee whether they will change their minds.
People's fickleness is vividly reflected in their feelings. If a person is overly involved in feelings and regards feelings as the whole of life, then it will be really painful to separate.
A Qin's boyfriend, Liu Yang, cheated on the Internet, which caused them to break up. For A Qin, Liu Yang is the only person he has entrusted wholeheartedly in his life. A Qin even bought a wedding room. Liu Yang is ready to get married whenever she asks.
After five years of love, A Qin said, "I followed him when I was 18, and now he doesn't need me." After breaking up, A Qin wrote in the social circle: It's too hard to be together.
For A Qin, she entrusted her youth to Liu Yang, but the reality gave her a blow. Now, A Qin has come out of the haze. She said: fortunately, I still have my own career and my own life. This time, my feelings also made me thoroughly understand that love can't be the whole of a person's life.
A Qin continued to bask in her beautiful photos and share the scenery of her trip. She never mentioned anything about the past, but now she has become more mature and learned to face the real growth of her last relationship.
Never give up the next chance to love. Life is full of ups and downs and failures, and feelings are hard to be smooth sailing. However, we must understand that the ex can't be an obstacle to your happiness. We should learn from the last failed relationship, keep our eyes open and actively seek another happiness.
Zhang Xinyi and Justin let netizens be moved by their feelings and get along because of the variety show "Men Do Housework". Justin took good care of Zhang Xinyi, but in fact, Zhang Xinyi had been married twice before.
In the program, she said: "I thought I would never have such a happy moment again in my life." Fortunately, I didn't give up love. " Zhang Xinyi also generously admitted that he had been with Justin and felt inferior, because he didn't deserve him or such happiness.
But in fact, as long as a person has the courage to pursue love, he should never give up the opportunity to pursue happiness because of his predecessor and last relationship. What your predecessor wants you to learn is to be a better self, polish your eyes and still look forward to the next happiness. Love has no boundaries. You can create it if you want. The past feelings are a precious experience. We should learn to thank our predecessors. It is because of them that we really grow up in our feelings.