As parents, we must be very concerned about our children's grades. If children's grades drop, or their grades are not good, then our parents will be very anxious. Some parents choose to treat their children with violence, but beating and cursing can only have a negative effect on their children. If we want our children to develop in a good direction, then our parents should be smart parents.

First, accept children.

If in real life, children's grades are not good, it will make our parents very anxious. When many parents see their children's poor grades, they will suddenly break into a furious rage and vent their most violent emotions on their children. However, the result of doing this is to hurt the child's self-esteem and have no effect on the child's performance. What our parents need to do is to accept our children first. Only when our parents accept their children will they treat them calmly. Without acceptance, there is no understanding and no respect.

Second, tolerate children.

Our parents should understand the truth that each of our children is not perfect, and each of our children will have such shortcomings and deficiencies. Therefore, we can't ask our children not to make any mistakes. In fact, every child grows up in the process of making mistakes. So when our children's grades are not good, we should also choose tolerance. There must be various reasons for poor grades. Beating and scolding children will only make them more and more rebellious. For the sake of grades, beating and cursing will only make children's grades worse and alienate their parents.

Again, patiently encourage companionship.

If children are found to have poor grades, parents need to be patient with them after accepting them. No matter what the circumstances, any child needs the company of his parents. Parents are the solid backing of children when their grades are poor, when their mood is low, when their children are in conflict with others, and so on. The patient encouragement and companionship of parents is also a good medicine for children to become excellent. Parents have done it and done a good job of companionship, and children will become more and more excellent under the care of their parents.

Therefore, when children's grades are not good, as parents, they must learn to control their emotions. Because on the road of children's growth, our parents' emotions are the sunshine and rain for their healthy and happy growth. We should learn to be smart parents, not parents who make things difficult for their children everywhere.