1, set the child free. Boys are naturally rebellious and free. They don't like living by the rules. As long as the child understands the good and evil of things and does not touch the moral bottom line, there is no need for parents to force him to do anything. For example, if a child wants to play for a while before doing his homework, there is no need for his mother to force him to finish his homework before playing, as long as the child keeps his promise and does as he says.

2. Cultivate children's interest. We should all feel that it is difficult to do a job that we have long disliked. In fact, children are the same. In the process of growing up, they will certainly find many things they like, such as taekwondo, singing, dancing and playing the piano. Mothers should not think that some hobbies are just doing nothing or avoiding learning. You should know how happy a person is to have what he likes. Properly developing children's hobbies can not only add points to their studies, but also provide more protection for their future career choices.

3. Educate boys to be friends with him. Girls are different from boys. Girls may consciously obey when they see their parents unhappy, but boys will not. They usually have no eyes, and he can't tell when their parents are angry. Moreover, if a boy makes a mistake, the more his parents beat him, the more stubborn he will become, and finally he may turn against his parents. Especially for adolescent boys, fathers should learn to be friends with their children and solve things in a man's way so that boys can accept criticism with faith.

Let the boy know that he is a man. Mother's temper is generally mild, and the task of training boys should be given to our father. Dad told the boy from an early age that he was a man with indomitable spirit. He should not cry like a little girl when he meets something, but should face the future life firmly.