Father education model
Father's education methods are sticks and words and deeds. They choose stick education because it is simple and direct, and can quickly stop children's behavior. However, it is not easy for every parent to preach in language, especially their generation, which has limited education and may not be patient enough.
Children's reaction
The child was frightened by his father's beating and became alienated. They are afraid to confide in their father, their hearts are closed, and their relationship with their father has become alienated.
Reflection on educational methods
My father and grandmother reflected on their educational methods after my brother fled. They are well aware of the harm of stick education to children, but they still choose this road. This makes us think deeply: Should educational methods keep pace with the times?
The relationship between father and child.
Stick education alienated the relationship between father and son. Father longs for a happy, open and close child, a friend who can talk to him without worries.
The beginning of change
The father began to adjust his attitude and treat his children's every behavior with more patience and understanding. As he became more and more gentle, the children's smiles gradually increased. To his delight, his temper has become more peaceful and his patience is increasing day by day. When he faces the child's practical jokes again, he can see the child's progress and understand the spirit of exploration that he should have at his age. Instead of trying to stop the child, he encouraged him to move forward bravely.