Strict education for children should conform to the development of the times, and family education should also keep up with the development of the times. There is even a sense of being ahead, because today's education is to train tomorrow's talents. Under the condition of market economy, in order to survive and develop, people need a good spirit of cooperation on the one hand and a strong sense of competition on the other. It is difficult for people without real talent and learning to gain a foothold in society. According to the needs of the times, parents should pay attention to cultivating children's quality in six aspects: (1) thinking should be "alive"; (2) Moral character should be "beautiful"; (3) knowledge should be "wide"; (4) Ability should be "strong"; (5) the will should be "firm"; (6) The body should be "healthy". These qualities are the basic conditions for the survival and development of society today and in the future.