So how to educate children to speak correctly?
Take part in some group activities. Communication is more than just writing, speaking and listening. It is very important to be able to cooperate well with others. Trust, support and understand them. Participating in friendly but challenging activities, such as some group activities, can open children's emotional intelligence and understand the needs of others. When they learn new reconnaissance skills, they will also learn new communication skills and have a larger vocabulary to communicate.
Public speaking activities begin with public speaking games at home to improve children's listening and speaking ability, such as the old classic "phone call" and story telling. Progress in giving a short speech at home. You can ask him to prepare for the public speech of local teenagers (if any). There are various resources on the Internet to promote your child's public speaking activities, such as speech templates, online competitions and general suggestions.
Conflict Resolution You and your children can solve conflicts through court game practice. When children are about 8 years old, 10 years old, they often like to be lawyers for plush animals and argue some stupid things in the "court". They sometimes ask me to be a judge. Each of them will express their views, and I will ask questions to help them protect their customers. Then, when I hear all the information, I will show my active listening skills by repeating what I heard to them and stating my conclusions. This is a good way for them to improve their oral communication skills when learning to display important information. We are also role models for good eye contact and will ask follow-up questions to clarify the information.
Encourage as many conversations as possible. As a parent, it is important to encourage your children to start or join as many conversations as possible. We know that with children's development and growth, they learn how to socialize by practicing rapidly developing dialogue skills, because they observe what is useful to them in different situations. But you should know that it is also important for adults, especially parents, to help children practice these skills. Start with a casual conversation, such as when you are cooking together or taking a bus. If you are in the car together, you can talk about where you are going, discuss the destination and ask your children how they feel. If you work together in the kitchen, you can encourage dialogue by talking about recipes and related steps. Participate by answering your child's questions, especially when you feel that your child is eager to participate.
Helping children become good communicators is not necessarily a difficult or daunting challenge. As children grow up, the benefits of effective communication skills will gradually emerge. When you see them in social situations and realize that they are excellent listeners and have excellent interpersonal skills, you will feel proud. Teaching children communication skills will also pay off as parents, because parents will benefit from children who know how to tell you how they feel.
Communication skills are very important for children of all ages. Being able to explain how you feel or what you want is as important to a child who loses his temper as to a teenager who applies for a job. In order to exchange meaningful information and maintain a healthy relationship, we must all be able to communicate.