Understanding is the wind that blows away the veil of smoke before the war;
Understanding is rain, dripping on the heart blinded by hands and washing away the dust.
Understanding is wind and rain, or it may be ... but it is eternal, essential and self-cultivation. ...
In real life, we often complain about the injustice of fate, the helplessness of life and the hardships of life, but this is not the case. Tao Yuanming, who "sees Nanshan leisurely under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums", still lives out the space he wants in the secular darkness and pedantry of officialdom. "The birds love the ancient forest, and the fish in the pond miss the ancient garden." He chose a paradise with gorgeous leisure. So is Li Bai. "Oh, how can I solemnly bow and scrape to those high-ranking officials whose sincere faces will never be seen?" He, a bohemian, is a hero, but he knows that he understands the true meaning of life.
Understanding is a bridge to communicate the mind. People and life need to understand, and people need to understand more.
Do you understand mom's hard work? Once, did you slam the door because of a harsh criticism from your mother? However, have you noticed more and more white hair on mom's temples and more and more prominent wrinkles on her forehead? "The thread in a loving mother's hand makes clothes for her wayward son", which mother doesn't love her children! We can see that mother's words and deeds are full of love, but we can't see, we can't see the caring heart, we can't see the bitter tears, we can't see … Mother understands you, so do you understand her?
Friends also need to understand. We often have a large circle of friends, but how many of them share joys and sorrows? "We are not happy-until the end of the day, we met. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? " . If you are sincere, if you understand, why care about the length of time? Understanding is the basis of maintaining friendship. Only by understanding each other can we advance together and make our friendship last forever. When your friend hurts you because of an unintentional remark, will you turn your back on others? When you disagree with your friend because of a misunderstanding, will you understand her? Maybe, maybe not. ...
Look at the flowers in front of the court, look at the clouds in the sky, open considerate flowers, and care more; Expand the cloud of understanding and be warmer.
Deep down, this understanding
Understanding is a kind of taste, an interpretation of the heart and a call of the soul;
Understanding is like tasting tea, which is bitter and sweet;
Understanding is like a warm fire, melting the cold heart bit by bit.
He stood in the golden sunflower field, and the wind roared past his ear, and the wind kept moving forward. Even if it is cut into pieces by pieces of sunflower leaves, it still moves forward. So he found the true meaning of life. But at that time, can such a person understand him? He is like a blindfolded child looking for and chasing the setting sun, and he has no dependence. He took his own life with a gun in his hand. However, a hundred years later, his works spread all over the world. He was finally understood and respected by the world. Van Gogh, do you accept this late understanding?
At that time, the tacit understanding between Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi was amazing. What kind of mourners and happy people are these? Like the death of the hippo chef, Boya was also hit, so he broke the phoenix-tailed harp to sacrifice to the hippo chef. It turns out that the friendship between two people who know each other is so deep that the world praises it.
Understanding can give people warmth; Understanding can lead to harmonious feelings; Understanding can relieve pain; Understanding can purify the mind.
Zhao is a small country, so there are two generals.
At that time, Xiang Ru, who was not afraid of the violence of the king of Qin, went to the State of Qin. The king of Qin had no excuse to attack Zhao. After returning home, the official worshipped Lian Po, and Lian Po was dissatisfied. Without the understanding of Xiang Ru, there would be no prosperity of Zhao, and without Lian Po's understanding of Xiang Ru, there would be no reunification of the two countries.
Therefore, we can see that mutual understanding is also a kind of unity and strength.
An understanding is to make a child prodigy.
Su Shi was once worried about his bumpy career. However, in the end, he chose Chibi, and Chibi helped him. He understood the true meaning of life, resolutely out of the dark officialdom, to understand Chibi, to understand his piece of heaven, that piece of land. So there was the open-mindedness of "the great river east went to the waves and scoured out, and it was a romantic figure through the ages."
Understanding is a clear spring that awakens people who have been hungry for a long time. A cup of tea in it is always sweet after hardships. So, open your heart, let yourself understand others, and let others understand yourself.
We need to understand
Modern society has entered the era of global village, information explosion, people's communication is very convenient and fast. In such a pluralistic society, there are huge differences between people and countries, with different religious beliefs, different lifestyles and even different social systems. Therefore, we need to understand. Only by understanding can we eliminate barriers and differences and move towards communication and unity.
"Taishan doesn't care about the soil, it can get taller; Rivers can only grow bigger if they don't choose small streams. " We should be as calm as Mount Tai and as broad-minded as rivers and seas. We should understand others like "a big belly can accommodate all the difficulties in the world". We can understand any cunning, selfish, insidious and hypocritical, and we can accept love. Only in this way can we be great, broad, firm and powerful.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Bao understood Guan Zhong's selfishness and his fear of death, and recommended Guan Zhong to be his boss, which was passed down as a beautiful talk in history.
Because of the understanding that "a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend", the literature of the Warring States period can flourish.
Because of the suspicion of "ousting a hundred schools of thought and respecting Confucianism alone", the cultural decline in the post-Han era occurred.
Because of understanding, Lien Chan's "ice-breaking trip", James Soong's "bridge-building trip", the cordial talks between the party chairmen on both sides of the strait, and the arrival of a new era in cross-strait relations. Although there are many differences between us, we are all from China. Under this premise, everything can be understood.
Society is complex and colorful. People with different personalities, hobbies and experiences should understand each other. Parents should understand their children in order to eliminate the generation gap; Teachers must understand students in order to eliminate obstacles; A boss needs to understand his subordinates in order to unite people.
But there are also many negative examples in history:
Because Empress Dowager Cixi did not understand the changes of the Reform Movement of 1898 in Kangliang, it led to foreign invasion and civil strife.
Because Jiang didn't understand * * *' s plan of peaceful nation-building, a three-year cruel war of liberation was possible.
It is particularly worth mentioning that during the ten-year catastrophe of the Cultural Revolution, society was full of suspicion and total ignorance. Some people accuse that it is selfish to plant some private plots and sell a car full of vegetables in the street. Wearing a flowered skirt and singing some folk songs, he was criticized as bourgeois. At that time, the production and lifestyle were extremely simplified, and tragedies of friends estrangement and relatives turning against each other were everywhere because of incomprehension.
The deep sky can understand the temporary raging of lightning storms, and the sun is shining; The vast sea can understand the temporary madness and boundless waves.
Nowadays, people are more accustomed to the pursuit of individualization and liberalization of life, which requires us to strengthen understanding to understand and eliminate hatred and deepen friendship. As long as all of us can understand, then our society will become a beautiful world without suspicion, resentment and war.