First, treat the two children fairly, and a bowl of water is even. Parents with two children at home often feel that their parents are biased towards the other side, the biased side is complacent, and the neglected side is crying silently. In the long run, the two children's personalities will change greatly, which is unfavorable to the growth of both children. Parents must pay attention to fairness when educating twins, that is, treat each child fairly. Let twins have positive social interaction, keep their independent personalities, actively guide their advantages and make them better adapt to life.
Second, according to the different personalities of twins, different education methods are adopted. You know, there are no two identical leaves and no two personalities in the world. Even very similar twins have different personalities. We should find the most suitable way to get along with children according to their different personalities. Let twins have positive social interaction, keep their independent personalities, actively guide their advantages and make them better adapt to life.
Third, pay attention to let twins develop their own independent personalities. Twins have been together since birth. Because they have been together for a long time, their views on many things will remain surprisingly consistent. However, twins are not the same person after all. They should have their own independent personality and their own thinking. Many parents of twin families will deliberately dress their two children exactly the same. Although they are very emotional to outsiders, it is not conducive to cultivating their own sense of independence. Children with weak personalities can easily live in the shadow of another child.