When you are hungry, you will be happy to eat a steamed bun. What if I eat ten steamed buns?

When you are not hungry, it is very comfortable to eat one candy, and eat one hundred.

Happiness comes when you have the right things to satisfy yourself at the right time.

However, some happiness can harm people's health, such as smoking and drinking.

Therefore, the happy experience is not so beautiful, because there are many ways to get happiness, but none of them can last.

Human genes also determine that it is not easy for human beings to get happiness, and at the same time, after getting happiness, they need more things to get the same happiness.

Passing when the grades are not good is happiness. When you get good grades, it's hard to be happy without full marks.

This is also a representative of happiness.

I keep brushing with my mobile phone in my hand, sometimes when I am unhappy.

Put down your mobile phone, and you will feel that you have wasted a lot of time.

In the end, there is not much happiness.

So, when we aim at happiness, are we going in the wrong direction?

Happiness has the characteristics of short duration and high acquisition cost.

This means that it is more and more difficult for people to get happiness.

If the cost of happiness is higher and higher, that is to say, it is more and more difficult for us to get happiness.

It's like a glass of wine used to be enough, but now I want to drink one bottle of wine, two bottles of wine and three bottles of wine.

It's like smoking one cigarette was enough in the past, but now you have to smoke half a box of cigarettes and one box of cigarettes.

This not only means that we should invest more in materials, but also means that we should invest more in time.

But what should we do when happiness is fleeting and there is nothing to recover?

At this time, it is most important to choose an experience that is not so easy to feel lost.

So life is meaningful.

The meaning of life, the value of life, these things belong to more complicated experiences, which are difficult to disappear.

When we get these things, people may be very painful or desperate, but the final satisfaction will make us relive our lives.

A victory in an exam, a champion in a sports meeting and a victory in a competition, each kind of victory finally gives us a different experience.

Some sense of accomplishment will accompany and change our lives, and some sense of accomplishment will only accompany and change us for a moment.

So I will advise my children not to take happiness as their life goal, but to take meaning as their life goal.

Moreover, the meaning of life is varied, depending on how you choose to practice your meaning.

In the process of realizing meaning, you may be happy, sad, painful and happy, but the final result will definitely make you feel that you have not wasted your life.

The world is worth visiting.

I would advise children to choose a goal that can contribute to society as the meaning of life.

After all, people don't live alone, and a person who lives can't be called a person.

So, he needs to contact others.

All his actions can be seen by others.

At this time, everything he does will be helped.

There will always be a group of people in this world who will remember him.

This is why I recommend him to help others as the meaning of life.

Even if he is allowed to sell breakfast, he can make it better and then it will be cheaper and healthier.

In today's society, if you want to be rich and expensive, you must pay a considerable price, and it may not be achieved through lifelong efforts.

But if we let him have his own place in the crowd, they can make some contributions to people and have their own value.

I don't think he will be lonely as a person, nor will he say that he thinks the world is too difficult.

In addition, if we can set the meaning of life for ourselves earlier, will we cherish the living time more when we have a goal?

So, will he be distracted by some short-term attraction?

Maybe he will kill time with something in his spare time, but I think he must have his most important goal.

Maybe he will reduce the chance of getting so-called hollow disease, feel idle and depressed.

As parents, I still hope that my children can live healthily in the world. On the contrary, everything else is secondary.

Therefore, I strongly advise children not to take happiness as their life goal, but to take meaning as their life goal.

The meaning of life is real money, something that will never go out of date.