What exactly does this force mean? Is it a strength to pat your ass twice? In fact, children hit twice, and the effect is still very good. If you set a standard for him first. When he makes a mistake, he will pat it twice as agreed in advance, and the child will remember it for a long time. As for the real violence, forget it. Children are relatives, not enemies. This kind of power is absolutely impossible.
Educating children whether to use force depends on the situation. When your child has done nothing wrong, you shouldn't lose your temper or even curse at him or her, because some children will have grievances. If ta does something wrong, we should educate him ideologically, guide him, tell him the pros and cons of what he has done, and let him understand things so that he won't do it again. If the child knows that he is wrong, but because you don't have dignity in front of him and are deliberately stubborn to you, then you can use force if necessary, because if you keep letting him be willful, ta will not take you seriously when he grows up.
There is no one-size-fits-all educational method. There are thousands of people in Qian Qian and thousands of people in Qian Qian, so it is not absolutely impossible to pat your ass twice. Persuade people with virtue, convince people with reason, and convince people with reason-just remember that slapping is not the best and should not be the first choice, and it can only be used as a last resort.
Absolutely not. When you use force, there must be two situations. One is that you are venting your emotions. Is this good for the children? One is that your education has failed. Can it be forcibly remedied?
Punishment is necessary, but it should be clearly used and targeted.