Will it hurt to teach children to be polite?
As the saying goes, family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. It is our parents' responsibility to cultivate children's manners. In order to cultivate their excellent quality, we should pay attention to the subtle civilization and etiquette education in our daily life. Therefore, in daily life, we educate our children on manners and etiquette from the following aspects: First, be real parents. Parents should always reflect on themselves and be responsible for their actions anytime and anywhere. Parents can tell their children their joys and sorrows sincerely and frankly. Parents should let their children know that their parents have ups and downs, and when they are in poor health or in a bad mood, they should admit that they are "tired", "tired" or "what they want" and "are you happy today" in front of their children, so that their children can understand their parents' joys and sorrows, and children will gradually understand how to care for and considerate their parents. My daughter has just learned to speak. Someone gave her something, and I asked her to say thank you. Later, after repeated training, she learned to say thank you. It is also in this way that children learn to say goodbye, sorry, hello and other polite expressions. Although children may not have higher gratitude and respect for others' feelings, learning polite language with others will undoubtedly help to gradually cultivate their excellent sentiments and qualities. Second, there are others in my heart. Because children are still young, it is not an overnight thing to educate others in your heart. It must go through a process from shallow to deep, from near to far. Parents can gradually cultivate their children in daily life and teach them to love their families, parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, relatives, teachers and classmates. To this end, parents should pay attention to gradually overcome their children's willfulness and selfishness in their daily family life. For example, when children are playing, noisy things happen from time to time, and the process of dealing with friction and slapstick is also one of the important courses for children to learn to get along with others. But after all, the child is still young and has not yet formed a concept of right and wrong. Especially today's children, the whole family is loved by their parents, grandparents, and some children are grumpy and selfish. If they are not satisfied with their peers, they will cry and even punch each other. Therefore, as parents, we should seize these important educational opportunities, do not be partial, do not indulge, and let our children be modest, honest, brave and so on. Teach children to handle disputes by themselves, cultivate their honest, frank, kind and healthy interpersonal skills, form a healthy personality, and thus improve their ability to distinguish right from wrong. Only when you know how to love the person you love can you achieve the educational purpose of loving others and having others in your heart. Third, insist on cultivating children's independence and work habits. Cultivating children's independence and work habits is the premise of cultivating children's good quality. Because only let children know a little bit about the joys and sorrows of life.