As we said before, human education is a systematic education project, which includes three major components: family education, social education and school education. These three components are interrelated, organically combined, mutually influenced, interacted and restricted. This education project can't leave any of them, in which school education plays a leading role, family education is the starting point and foundation of all education, and social education has the most extensive influence. If education is compared to an apple, the middle layer is school education, which is equivalent to the pulp layer between the stone and the peel; The outer peel is social education, which is the key to protect the nutrition and freshness of apples. Therefore, we must combine school education, family education and social education to form a joint force of children's education. Parents and teachers have the same educational goals for their children. Therefore, parents should respect and cooperate with teachers to educate their children as much as possible. Parents and teachers must strengthen communication and often ask their children about all aspects, so as to cooperate with teachers to give their children the best supervision and encouragement in peacetime. Parents should also report the subtle changes of children's thoughts and emotions to the teacher in time. Some words are conveyed by the teacher after processing, and the effect is often unexpected.
2. Pay attention to the role model of parents and let children develop good behavior habits from an early age.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If they want their children to develop good moral quality from an early age, as parents, they must attach importance to the power of example. First, they should develop good personal behavior habits, start from small things, and influence and educate their children through words and deeds in daily life. If parents can be filial to their parents and elders, it can affect their children's respect and filial piety; For another example, parents can be firm and confident when they are laid off and choose a job, which can affect the cultivation of children who dare to face setbacks, face up to difficulties and persist in pursuit. The power of example is infinite, so the personality charm of parents is a crucial factor in educating and guiding children to grow up healthily.
3. Listen to children's voices, fully respect children and promote their positive development.
Parents always educate their children to respect their elders, which is impeccable, but have we ever thought that we should fully respect our children ourselves? Respect is always mutual. Although children are young, they also have their own circle of activities, their own joys and sorrows, and they also need someone to talk to. Therefore, even if parents are busy at work, they should take some time to communicate with their children, listen to their voices, dispel their inner doubts and give timely and appropriate guidance. Even parents who are very busy at work should try their best to do it, even if it is only a few minutes before going to bed. You can also simply ask your child what he did at school during the day, because although it is only a few short sentences, it is enough to let the child realize the concern of his parents, thus enhancing the emotional communication between parents and children. Communication is everywhere. For example, every weekend night, a family can sit together and talk to each other about what happened in the past week and the children's performance this week.
What parents need to remember is that if children mention their parents' shortcomings and deficiencies in communication, parents must dare to admit and correct them in time. Children's inner world is generally very colorful, so if we want to understand children, we can only exchange our hearts with trust and win trust with trust. Parents should protect their children's self-esteem and cultivate their self-confidence in order to better promote their active development.
4. Pay attention to the unity of family education and guide children to develop harmoniously.
Family is often a combination of multiple relatives, and family education is not a matter for a family member alone. Therefore, as a child's parents or other relatives and elders, it involves a question of how to unify opinions on the education of children. Parents can't reach an agreement, so let the children take advantage. Therefore, parents must reach an agreement on internal opinions in advance, communicate more and support each other, and never make a scene in front of their children on the issue of educating them and expose their differences to them. In fact, it doesn't matter if there are differences. The key is to face it correctly, reach an agreement in advance, and find the most suitable plan for your children, especially to prevent the elders from overindulging their children and create a good family environment and atmosphere for their healthy growth.
5. Pay attention to the cultivation of non-intellectual factors and fully stimulate children's potential.
The size of a person's life achievement mainly depends on two factors: one is the level of IQ and the strength of learning ability, that is, the intelligence factor; The second is whether you have the right motivation, strong interest, full emotion, strong perseverance and good habits in practice, that is, non-intellectual factors.