First of all, parents should try their best to control themselves when they find problems, instead of being furious and beating and cursing. Call the child and sit down and talk seriously. Let children talk about their own ideas, what to spend money on, and how to deal with it. According to the facts, focus on two aspects for children: one is right or wrong. Connecting with reality and explaining how to treat money to children will reflect a person's quality, and it will be a big mistake for small problems to develop. The second is what to do if you want to spend money. Tell the child what you want to buy. Tell your parents that it is considerate for them to give money or not. Asking for money is not good for children's growth. If parents usually ignore some reasonable needs of their children, they should do self-examination for their children, let them feel the democratic atmosphere in the family, and let them learn the truth of being a man through communication and guidance with their parents.

Secondly, parents should set an example in financial management. Some children steal money from home because they find that their parents don't have a clear concept of their own money, thinking that they don't know if they have taken it, so that children take advantage of it. Experts believe that it is necessary for parents to make a more detailed record of family income and expenditure in front of their children. On the one hand, it can cultivate children's good financial habits, on the other hand, it can let children know their own economic situation and cultivate the awareness of rational use of money. Also, children should be given moderate pocket money. How much pocket money to give should proceed from reality, look at the family's economic conditions and the actual needs of children, and guide children how to spend money.

Finally, to change children's behavior of taking money from home, the starting point is to respect children's personality, never look down on children at once, never handle this matter in front of outsiders, not to mention children stealing money, and "expose children's shortcomings" from time to time. Arbitrary punishment will hurt children's self-esteem.

Let's take a look at the analysis of Children's Network.

First: When parents find their children stealing money, they must not blindly beat and scold. They must control their emotions. Beating and cursing won't solve the problem. They should talk to the child, understand the reason why he stole the money, and educate him to realize his mistake and not to make it again in the future.

Second: children also have self-esteem. When parents find their children stealing money, don't talk about it easily, let alone in front of outsiders, and keep self-esteem.

Third: after the child takes the money, parents should communicate with the child more and ask him why he took the money and where the money was spent. You can educate your child to ask his parents for appropriate fees and make him realize that he is wrong.

Fourth: How much pocket money do you have every month after communicating with your children? To form the habit of saving money, you need to learn to save money if you need to spend money, not in this way.

Fifth, tell children stories about stealing money when they were young and committing crimes when they grew up, so that children can vividly realize their wrong behavior and must correct it in the future.

Sixth: Parents should encourage and praise the children who admit their mistakes after stealing money, so that they can correct their bad habits from the heart.

Seventh: Parents must not always tell their children that they have stolen money in the past, thinking that they have warned their children from time to time. In fact, this will also be counterproductive. A child will think that exposing his shortcomings will hurt his self-esteem.

Eighth: There is another way for children to steal money. Usually, parents can educate their children that it is not easy to make money, or let them buy food at home, so that children can realize the hard work of their parents to make money, and the money should be spent where it should be spent.