Children's rebellion will not only lead to weariness of learning, but also affect learning, and their grades will get worse and worse, thus giving up on themselves; It will also affect children's interpersonal relationships and self-esteem, and lose confidence in study and life; Serious psychological problems may also occur, affecting physical and mental health. Children in a rebellious period, first of all, I think learning to listen is a process.

Learn to listen

Let children express their bad emotions, including bad ideas or some grievances they have suffered. Maybe you can give them some understanding, then give them some guidance, and then give them some help. Maybe children will think this is a very good way to communicate.

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This doesn't mean that you didn't listen to your children. After the ins and outs of this matter, you should give him an instruction immediately, or give him a help that you think is beneficial to him. In fact, the child doesn't know what you have done, but what he may need more is to let him freely express his emotions and freely express his good and bad views. There is such a person who understands him very much and agrees with him very much.

Family atmosphere

Family atmosphere is also very important. Parents should give their children a warm and harmonious family environment and let them feel the warmth and love of the family, so that children will be more willing to communicate with their parents.

Correct guidance

Then you can influence it appropriately, or what will happen to me when this happens? He will feel this way, so will you, and so will you. Then you give him a relatively reasonable suggestion, and then he will express himself freely, and he will choose a way he thinks he should do. In this kind of communication, we say it is more effective.