However, the problem is that both men and women have the right to education. Without education, how can they play a good social role in the future? The ancients also considered this. Therefore, the education of girls will also start with dolls, but the content is very different from that of boys. How can it be different?
To put it simply, this kind of differentiated education began from being able to speak, that is, learning to speak. Pay attention to one? Male, female? Boys can speak loudly, girls can only speak quietly, and she has been taught to be docile since childhood.
Learning to speak is about one or two years old. After that, boys and girls can play together, and there is not much difference in education. By the age of six, they pay attention to knowledge and orientation, but by the age of seven? Men and women don't eat together? Give them reasons why men and women are different.
Eight years old, contact with shallow ceremony, nine years old, know Wang Shuo and Tian Gan.
It doesn't make any difference until you are ten years old. After the completion of basic education, the differences between boys and girls are reflected.
Ten years old, boys can? I will be a foreigner in ten years, and I will live outside? Go outside and learn from the teacher, learn to read, learn arithmetic, and learn some principles of governing the country and keeping the country safe. What about girls, staying at home and studying? Mujiao? .
Is to find a female elder, a capable and virtuous female elder, and teach girls how to be women. Generally speaking, there are seven things: holding a hemp spoon, treating silkworms, weaving, arranging flowers, drinking, making beans and helping to drink.
How to serve people,
Boys began to learn to read and write at the age of ten, and each age has different requirements. Generally speaking, they can read and write at the age of ten, learn musical instruments and read poems at the age of thirteen; He learned archery and driving at the age of fifteen and was crowned an adult at the age of twenty. Strict education taught him to be a modest gentleman.
As for girls, they have learned these seven things until they get married, which is simply a lifelong career. Even before they get married, they have to have a three-month surprise education. What is this called? The woman married in early March, and the ancestral temple was not destroyed, so she taught it in the palace. Since the ancestral temple was destroyed, it has been taught in the imperial clan, teaching female virtue, female speech, female appearance and female merit. So it is also suitable for married women. ?
Learning female virtue, female speech, female appearance and female merit, these four contents, also called four lines, are all for women to learn? Quiet and quiet, sober and tidy, ashamed of oneself, active and quiet, called female virtue; If you choose a word, don't say anything bad, and then say it. No, man, I mean a woman. Washing away dirt, dressing fresh and clean, bathing in time, not dirty and not humiliating, this is called a woman's ability; It's a woman's job to concentrate on spinning, not laughing, and tidy up the dining tables for the guests. ?
Simply put, there is chastity and shame; If you talk too much, don't hurt people with ugly words; Dress neatly and take a bath on time; And concentrate on housework, be considerate of guests and so on.
Since then, women have basically graduated from college and can live happily.