Parents are the starting line for children, and their cognition determines their future.

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My father was born in 1956. At that time, there were many children at home, so it was not easy to eat and live, let alone study. Being in the countryside, he had to work and earn work points when he was a teenager. With the support of grandma, my father graduated from high school.

Dad said that his family was poor and he couldn't afford to live in a dormitory, so he rode a bike and traveled 40 miles. When it snowed heavily, he went to school and the first class was over. He had no money to buy rice, so he had to bring rice from home, only corn stubble, an iron lunch box, a warm bite and sometimes pickles. Sometimes, he rides very fast and spills some, dad said.

Dad said that only by studying can there be a way out, so as not to be poor all the time. So we three children and two college students thank our father for his knowledge, and we will give it wherever we pass the exam. My brother likes school and doesn't want to study. At that time, I was in college, my sister was in grade one, and my family was not poor. My brother will continue to study. Today, the optional occupation can't just be delivery.

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My aunt's sister Juan is six months older than me, and now she is unemployed at home. Her son is in the fifth grade, and she has no interest in learning. Fighting while doing homework, children especially like to play with mobile phones. On one occasion, the teacher found Sister Juan and said that the child had not finished his homework. After asking, I realized that the child had torn a few pages of exercise books and said that it would not, and the counseling was very stressful.

In retrospect, when we were young, we couldn't see what kind of life Sister Juan and I would lead in the future. For a time, I was very envious of the state of Sister Juan's family. After school, I didn't go home, so I went to Sister Juan's house first, because her house was delicious, my uncle's cooking was good, and the fish kept flowing. We should also save the solar terms, such as eating jiaozi in Lantern Festival, eating spring cakes in spring, eating zongzi in May and so on.

Sister Juan is good at home, but she can't go to school. Her achievement is the tail of a crane. When I come home from school, my aunt is basically playing mahjong. Sister Juan does her homework to deal with it. As a result, she didn't take the senior high school entrance examination. When I was in the normal school, she had already made money.

I stopped studying when I left school, so Sister Juan didn't grow up until now. Uncle menstruation's cognition made Sister Juan's life. Although, when I was young, only the guests at home had meat to eat. Although I wear other people's old clothes, I am always full of energy. My parents showed me a different world.

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I grew up and got married, and I don't know what cognition is.

I didn't learn to be a mother until I had a baby. Fortunately, I am willing to study. What impressed me most was reading, Harvard girls, and Liu's mother's educational methods. As long as the child wants to try, she can do it, knowing that it will not succeed, and let her try clumsily, learn while doing, and be happy.

Growth is not the result of seeing, but the experience in the process of growing up. I'm afraid the children will get dirty clothes, and I'm afraid the children won't have enough to eat. My second treasure won't eat with a spoon until she goes to kindergarten. I have never experienced hunger. When eating is not smooth, grandma will cook for him, and a partial eclipse is formed.

Children have to take care of themselves, and the education methods of each generation are not suitable for our children. For the sake of children, learn to let go. Children are not the private property of parents. They are independent people. Everything should be democratic, and children should form a good habit of lifelong benefit.

I am a teacher and a parent. In terms of educating children, the effect of words and deeds is not good. My son sometimes asks, "Mom, why don't you read novels?" If you read novels, I can also play with my mobile phone. "

Children can see what their parents are doing. For children's growth, we can't help them with money and power. Just set an example for them, improve their cognitive level, re-understand the world, bend down to know their children and accompany them to grow up effectively.