If the contradictions between children are not resolved, the resentment between children will become deeper and deeper, which is not conducive to the harmony between brothers, friends and sisters.
In addition to conflicts between their own children, children may also have conflicts with children from other families.
If you don't intervene to solve it, it is easy for children to feel wronged; And if the intervention is solved, it is easy for people to say that they are bullying the small. So when there is a conflict between children, should parents intervene?
1, find out what happened and why.
Before parents get involved in conflicts between children, they should understand the causes and process of conflicts, so as to better handle conflicts for children, resolve conflicts and better clarify who is right and who is wrong.
If parents are indiscriminate in favoring one child, it is easy to make other children feel chilling.
This kind of aboveboard partiality can easily arouse the dissatisfaction of other children, not only can't solve the contradiction between children, but also lay the groundwork for the next quarrel and start work.
Therefore, parents should listen to the explanations of the two children fairly when they meet children who have disputes, and then consider whether they need to intervene in the children's conflicts. If necessary, they need to help children solve conflicts from an objective perspective.
2. Be clear about whether you should get involved.
If the conflicts between children are just ordinary fights, shoving and screaming, then parents can let the children solve them themselves, which will not only enable the children to exercise their communication skills, but also help them grow up better.
If you blindly intervene in disputes between children, it is easy for children to develop the psychology of finding parents for something, which is not conducive to their independent growth and their future life development.
When parents educate their children, they should clearly tell them that they are not afraid of things. If you encounter other children bullying yourself at will, you should also boldly resist and can't stand being bullied by the other side.
If you can't resist, you can ask your parents for help and ask them to help you find other parents to deal with things. This can not only cultivate children's strong character, but also help children grow better.
If children often fight, parents need to intervene urgently, contact each other's parents and jointly deal with the fighting.
If the child is seriously injured, it is necessary to send the seriously injured child to the hospital for treatment in time, and then talk about various medical expenses according to the degree of injury of the child.
If the child is slightly injured, he should also be sent to a clinic or hospital for disinfection and dressing to avoid bacterial infection. In any case, when parents find that their children are injured, they should pay attention to the extent of their children's injuries and seriously deal with the fighting with the other parents.
Don't take sides.
When solving conflicts between children, parents should know not to take sides, let children explain the process of contradictions from their own perspective, and then parents should deal with the problem from a fair and just perspective.
If the child is at fault, parents should promptly guide the child to apologize;
If the other child is at fault, go home.