1. Adolescent children are adults, so parents can't treat them as children. Parents should change the way of disciplining their children to treat adolescent children and treat them equally. As parents, they should not suppress their children and pay attention to their tone.

2. Respect children's self-esteem, praise and encourage more, don't beat and scold in front of outsiders, and give children more positive hints.

3. Don't compare children with other people's children, don't say that children are wrong, believe in children, believe that children can handle their own affairs and let go appropriately.

4. Listen to children's voices and help them realize their ideas. Children believe in their parents, and children are naturally willing to accept their parents' opinions.

5. Give children more correct guidance, help them establish correct values, and prevent them from going astray under the influence of bad social atmosphere.

6. Scold less, listen more, be patient, don't beat and scold her easily, give her more privacy, give her more face, don't hurt her self-esteem, don't be silent and study every day, but look at what she wants to do and what her hobbies are, and try to be her friend, not the person she wants to escape. Guide her correctly and set an example in life at ordinary times. Parents are the best teachers for children, teach her to establish a correct outlook on life and values, and be her leader.