Baoyu's family has two prospective aunts, one is Qingwen and the other is xiren. The two of them also hold different attitudes towards Daiyu and Baochai becoming Baoyu's wives respectively.

Qingwen naturally prefers Daiyu, because it can be seen that he has a better relationship with Daiyu.

Qingwen, xiren and Baoyu quarreled again, and Daiyu came to stop the fight. Besides Daiyu's ingenious art of fighting, we can also see that Daiyu and Qingwen are closer, and the little tacit understanding between them is clear at a glance.

Aroma likes Baochai better, because she thinks Baochai is more tolerant. As Baoyu's aunt in the future, she can get along better with Baochai, but I don't know if she can tolerate Baochai, but Baochai may not be able to tolerate her.

Attacking people is a bit thoughtful. Baoyu doesn't like Baochai that much, so she can be the favorite person in Baoyu's heart, but she doesn't know Baochai is afraid of her, so how can she be with Baoyu?

If xiren and Daiyu are together, even if Daiyu can live in peace, xiren may make trouble from time to time. On the contrary, Qingwen can live in peace with Daiyu.

Because Qingwen is very supportive of Baodai, Baoyu also trusts her. Baoyu knew that xiren didn't like Daiyu, and sometimes he avoided xiren.

Baoyu was injured by being beaten and had to lie in bed. Baoyu asked Qingwen to send her two old handkerchiefs in order to reassure Daiyu and show his mind!

She is a sincere girl and doesn't have too many ideas. For Daiyu, she will love the house, Baoyu loves Daiyu, and she will like Daiyu very much.

Qingwen is simple. It doesn't matter how many people Baoyu likes, as long as everyone can be together in the end!

Besides, Qingwen never appeared in front of Baoyu when she was in Yeyuan Hong, and she didn't do anything against Baoyu. Qingwen is very clear about her position. You and Daiyu take care of Baoyu together, and she will do her duty. Two people will get along better.

Daiyu and Qingwen have similar temperaments and personalities.

Qingwen is an explosive personality, straightforward and lovely, and she won't beat around the bush when she wants to say anything. She is very simple. Her personality fits Daiyu's temper very well.

Daiyu's life in Jiafu is very tired. Jiafu is a complex human society. If she is not careful, she will offend people and do something wrong. She should be careful about everyone and everything.

But in front of Qingwen, you don't have to do this. Don't hide your happiness and unhappiness, and don't have to guess each other's thoughts. Daiyu likes girls like Qingwen very much.

At the same time, Qingwen also likes Daiyu very much. Daiyu is kind, playful and lovely, and treats people sincerely. Daiyu's sense of justice for things she doesn't like is also very similar to Qingwen's meaning.

Daiyu and Qingwen are very good friends. They didn't quarrel and fight because of Baoyu, but became more harmonious because of Baoyu's existence.

Third, Daiyu's bearing and style of dealing with people.

At that time, monogamy had not been practiced, and Baoyu wanted to marry a concubine anyway, but Daiyu knew that even if Baoyu wanted to marry someone else, he would still be very kind to her. It is better to be with someone you like than with someone you don't know.

Daiyu's education from childhood includes being the master of her own house, which is also family education. How does Daiyu manage family affairs and deal with all kinds of affairs in the family, including getting along with others.

No matter who Baoyu's concubine is, Daiyu will get along well with her, but if it is Qingwen, their relationship will be better.

Daiyu's usual style and way of dealing with people are very good. Looking at the people around her who are loyal to her and can even protect each other with their lives, we can know that Daiyu is sincere, and those who have been with her for a long time will like her very much, and Yinger around Baochai also likes her very much.

Daiyu has her own management style, and the effect is better if she does not force inaction. Xiaoxiang Pavilion has never seen the management of Daiyu, but there is no such thing as drinking and gambling, and there is no such noisy thing. Everything is in good order, warm and soft, which makes people want to stay there for a while.

Therefore, Daiyu's management ability and tolerance, whether Qingwen or others can get along well!