Comments on "I'm not stupid" ① The name "I'm not stupid" aroused my strong curiosity. When I first came into contact with this film, I thought: This must be about a child's school experience. Just thinking about what happened, the film slowly began. I watched this movie, both funny and touching, and sometimes I couldn't help laughing when my eyes lit up; Sometimes the eyes fly, and there are a few shiny things spinning in their eyes.
9-year-old Tom stole my aunt's money in the school store, which left a deep impression on me. Unexpectedly, the surveillance video of the store told the police the truth. When Tom's parents went home in a rage and picked up crutches to teach Tom a lesson, Tom cried and told the truth: there was a performance at school soon, and he was the leading role. When other children can invite their parents to attend, his parents not only ignore his request, but also let their own go.
Occasionally at the dinner table, he heard someone invite his father to give a speech. 500 yuan an hour, so he sold all his beloved cards and still couldn't make enough money. As the performance time approached, he really had no other choice ... the family hugged each other and cried.
After watching this movie, I understand that there are no children who can't teach, only parents who can't teach. Parents should educate their children in the right way, and children should understand their parents' good intentions.
On Wednesday, Teacher Chen showed the educational film "I am not stupid" to our class. The story in the film touched me deeply and I couldn't calm down for a long time. "I'm not stupid" describes the relationship between parents and children in two families, from "being too busy to communicate" to "the child's mind gradually degenerating", to "building a bridge of communication by accident", and finally "the once empty and lost heart" is found back! In the play, Xue Qian and Jerry constantly strive for praise from their parents, but what they get is ridicule from their parents. We have experienced this sense of loss.
I don't know when our parents stopped encouraging and appreciating us, but kept disciplining us, always thinking that we didn't do well enough and that they were right. I don't know when it started. My parents were so busy that they didn't come home until late at night that they didn't even have time to communicate with us. Of course, we also know that parents are very busy for this family, but no matter how busy they are, they should take some time to spend with us. Even for half an hour, we need your concern and look forward to your appreciation. What's the point of making money if we are like Xue Qian in the movie because of lack of education?
"There are no children who can't teach, only parents who can't teach." This is what my father realized before his death. It's not that he doesn't like success. All he knows is that he was brought up as a child. He doesn't want to succeed in the future. He didn't know how to love someone and express his love, which led to today's tragedy. He traded his life for the growth and reward of his children. It is understandable for parents to spank their children, but it is cruel for schools to whip their children in front of all teachers and students to educate their students. I don't agree with this. Doing so may teach children a lesson, but you know what? This practice also does great harm to children's minds. There has been such a saying in the play: peel off the rotten apples and leave the good ones. You can still eat it. If you throw it away, it's gone.
It is precisely because parents did not praise their children in time when they made progress, and did not educate them well when their children had problems. They just keep blaming their children, which makes them make mistakes again and again. There used to be a saying in the play: resources misplaced are garbage, and garbage misplaced is resources. I believe that every child is not stupid, and I hope every child is as happy as an angel.
The name "I'm not stupid" aroused my strong curiosity. When I first came into contact with this film, I thought: This must be about a child's school experience. Just thinking about what happened, the film slowly began. I watched this movie, both funny and touching, and sometimes I couldn't help laughing when my eyes lit up; Sometimes the eyes fly, and there are a few shiny things spinning in their eyes.
I can't forget one scene: because my parents are too strict, they always yell at my son and don't care about his growth, so my son hangs out with gangsters all day and learns to smoke, drink and steal ... but his parents don't know anything. So the son slowly developed to grab things! He robbed men, women and children!
Once I robbed something, my son knew it was wrong and went back to return it. But the people around you can't stand it. Call the police immediately. The son's parents rushed over and tried to hit him, but the police were coming towards him. In order to let his son go home safely and give him a chance to repent, the father grabbed the gold necklace and begged the victim to lie that he was his father. The victim refused, saying that he wanted to teach the child a lesson. When the father saw it, he held the victim's hand tightly and knelt down heavily in front of everyone. At this point, the hopeless son was already in tears. He only shouted one word: "Dad, Dad ..."
Oh, what a pity to inherit the wind! In fact, the more your parents beat you and scold you, the more you are in their hearts. I remember an old saying: "Beating is kissing, scolding is love." If one day your parents don't care about you, it means they don't have you as a child in their hearts. One day, you will be more painful, more uncomfortable and want to vent than being beaten and scolded by your parents!
So, if your parents love you very much, you must thank them for their warmth and help! At the same time, I can see from the scene of "Father Kneeling" that parents really love you. Every time I beat and scold you, I may feel sad silently. Because it hurts your parents when it hits you and scolds you! Therefore, we should cherish this parental affection more and often say "I love you, dear mom and dad!" " "This may make them very happy, let them discover our own bright spots, let them feel our existence, and thus love us and care about us more!
At the same time, I remembered a short story: the child sprained his foot, and his father just asked coldly, "How are you?" Then he said very cruelly, "If it's all right, stand up and go yourself!"! Quick! " The child looked at his father in surprise and sadness. Just when he was desperate, the father suddenly turned around at the corner and gave the child a kind look. ...
It seems that our parents' harshness and ruthlessness are only superficial phenomena. Let us have a pair of eyes that are good at discovering, and use a grateful heart to understand the true good intentions of our parents!