In fact, I think this matter should be decided according to a child's personality. Every child has a different personality. Some children are generous, while others are sensitive. So go according to their personality. Choose a parenting style, and you can't just cut across the board. If the child is the kind of person who wants to relax, has no ambition and no learning mentality, then he must be strict. But if he is shy, unwilling to get in touch with people and always likes to stay at home and play alone, then you must raise him and let him get in touch with children and the outside world.

Neither. In fact, there is really nothing worth discussing about this thing. Many people always like to talk about my child, and it is precisely because of the way I use it that he is so excellent. Not every child is different. We can't cut across the board. What's more, the child is an independent individual, and he has his own thoughts. It doesn't mean that you can let him do whatever you want. If he is the kind of person with a big heart and doesn't care much about those things, then you are strict with him, and he may not bear a grudge against you, but if he is sensitive, it may cause him some psychological harm.

I think when disciplining a child, we must be strict, such as educating his three views and his character, so we must be strict, and this matter cannot be sloppy. You can't just say he's crying and you give in. The three views that should be given to him and what should be given to him must be treated correctly and cannot be ignored. But if children want to go out to play or learn something, then we should choose according to their wishes. Never enroll him in many cram schools that he doesn't like and force him to learn things that he doesn't like.