Family education is the education that parents (first of all) give to their children in family life. According to modern concepts, family education includes: the interaction and education between family members (including parents and children) in life; Hire a teacher who specializes in family education to educate children. Family education is called tutor for short.
Chinese-style family education originated from the popular words "Chinese-style crossing the street" and "Chinese-style transportation" in June of 20 12, which were used to refer to some educational drawbacks and problems in China.
Multi-material and less time
Some people think that the so-called family education is to enroll children in various extracurricular classes, invite the best teachers for them, and cultivate their various specialties. But they themselves
Incorrect education method (10)
But there is little time to chat with children and play games together. I don't know that an important principle of family education is "parent-child" interaction. Family education without parents' personal participation actually exists in name only.
Value IQ over EQ.
IQ, EQ and financial quotient are all very important to a person. But family education is mainly aimed at the cultivation of children's emotional intelligence. Every word and deed and every move of parents in daily life will become the first object for children to imitate. Imitation is the first and most skilled learning method for children. Therefore, parents should set an example. Instead of telling their children how to do it, it is better to show them.
Pay more attention to results than process.
Most people are not sure what they really like and what they are suitable for before 18 years old. What we learned before this not only laid our knowledge foundation,
Correct education is very important.
Another important function of opening our learning ideas is to explore suitable learning methods and develop good study habits in combination with practice. Scores can't accurately test whether we have learned the correct learning methods.
Pay too much attention to sb's wishes.
Many parents will impose their dreams or wishes on their children. If the child violates or fails to realize it, he will be extremely disappointed and even miserable. This actually violates another principle of family education, "people-oriented". Children are the core of family education, and parents should respect their wishes and guide them reasonably.
Extreme educational attitude
The competition in modern society is fierce, and every parent doesn't want his children to lose at the "starting line". Therefore, there are often behaviors that blindly implement advanced education regardless of the laws of children's physiological and psychological development. Of course, there are also some people who think that it is "natural" and adopt a free-range attitude towards children, missing the best educational opportunities.
Banghe education
Drinking education in bars refers to educating children by violence and scolding.